darliee Posted October 6, 2008 Posted October 6, 2008 my other situation before >> http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t166247/ This guy named Matt broke up with me like 2 or 3 days ago. Because I kept on saying that he doesnt like me and he flirted with other girls lots. I showed him a picture of me sliting my wrist, which I thought didn't really helped -- i wasn't that kind of person who would do that. He said he's going to give me a second chance. But I got to make him like me more than he does now. He felt so sorry and bad about him dumping me. He sometimes ask if i like/love him still, i said yes. I asked him he said, sorta. We decided that we will still hang out, hook-up and do stuffs we usually do(act like were still together). Me and him doesnt want anyone to know about us -- that he dumped me and were not going out. Everytime I bring up the good times we had, he said he feels bad and like s h i t. He said if he wanted me more than he does now, he might ask me out again. But if he did, do you think I should say yes? Do you think it'll work for us? Do you think he's just using me? What should I do?
0hpenelope Posted October 6, 2008 Posted October 6, 2008 You slit your wrist??? :eek: I have to address this. This is beyond the scope of any LS member. This should have been a wake up call that you should seek help - not from Matt. If you have the means to go to a counselor or something, do it. The other point is, you showed him a picture of you slitting your wrist before or after the break up? If you showed it to him, you basically manipulated him into coming back. You don't have to resort to such extremes to make someone who truly cares come back. In fact, you shouldn't have to! Matt broke up the relationship for a reason. I honestly think that you should focus on taking care of yourself. No one on this planet is worth suicide. No one. Please seek help. I read another thread you authored and saw that Misses Lishy and Geisha responded and I have to second the shared opinion they have. Get help. Not "might". Will. You need to take care of yourself before you can take care of other people. Can other LS members chime in, please? I worry about the OP, I do...
Simplycaroline Posted October 6, 2008 Posted October 6, 2008 my other situation before >> http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t166247/ This guy named Matt broke up with me like 2 or 3 days ago. Because I kept on saying that he doesnt like me and he flirted with other girls lots. I showed him a picture of me sliting my wrist, which I thought didn't really helped -- i wasn't that kind of person who would do that. He said he's going to give me a second chance. But I got to make him like me more than he does now. He felt so sorry and bad about him dumping me. He sometimes ask if i like/love him still, i said yes. I asked him he said, sorta. We decided that we will still hang out, hook-up and do stuffs we usually do(act like were still together). Me and him doesnt want anyone to know about us -- that he dumped me and were not going out. Everytime I bring up the good times we had, he said he feels bad and like s h i t. He said if he wanted me more than he does now, he might ask me out again. But if he did, do you think I should say yes? Do you think it'll work for us? Do you think he's just using me? What should I do? No your relationship will not work under these conditions because you manipulated the situation and him to keep him from leaving you. You really and truly need to seek help. The only reason that he is with you is because you guilted him into it which is a very cruel and selfish thing to do. You sound very young you need to gain some self confidence in who you are. Once you do that there will be plenty of people who will and will not like you for who you are and the most important thing is YOU will like YOU.
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