sushiking Posted October 6, 2008 Posted October 6, 2008 ok my ex broke up with me about 2 months ago. we were getting along and talking but then 3 weeks ago we got into a big fight. it was all my fault, i started an argument with her for no reason other than i was hurt and i embarrassed her in front of her friends. i apologized in person , and she told me that she may not want to talk to me any more. then i sent her a card and and apology letter. her roommate told me that she forgives me, but i still havent herd from her. i want to give her space, but i also dont want to lose her forever. i love this woman very dearly. how long should i wait before i initiate contact if i dont hear from her? is there anything else i can do? im not going to just give up and move on, thats the easy way out .
BackonTrack Posted October 6, 2008 Posted October 6, 2008 Give up champ. The best u could do is move on and maybe in the future you can start something back up. She doesn't want to be with you, its life. Keep moving. Stop talking to her, your not embarrassing her, your embarrassing yourself. Take a few months & go NC, sooner or later she will check up on you if she still cares or hasn't found someone new, either way nothing u can do.
EmperorR Posted October 6, 2008 Posted October 6, 2008 basically nothing you can do, trust us all when we say it, THERE IS NOTHING YOU CAN DO. anything you want to do stop it will just push her away, go no contact. Look I was there sad pathetic begging etc. then i slapped myself, why worry or care or think about the future when i can't change it, let things be. Yes I love my ex still and I hope one day we can get back together but clinging, being in her life as a friend etc. is not going to bring her back, neither is thinking of her 24/7 live your life and you never know if she doesn't then in time you will be ok. Going NC is not the easy way out, its actually one of the hardest things you can do. My ex contacted me today on yahoo for the first time in 12 days, I said nothing but signed out 5 minutes later, I will not be a doormat, I will not sit in a corner and wait while she works out herself.
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