All Star Posted October 6, 2008 Posted October 6, 2008 The other way around is more difficult, Porter. My friend has been married to a white guy for 8 years now (and 3 kids), but his family has not entirely accepted her to this day. My sister's white inlaws are KKK. LOL Her husband had to disown them when he married my sister.
Shygirl15 Posted October 6, 2008 Posted October 6, 2008 Porter? Are you a sista or not? If not, you better not have one of MY black men. LOL I just offered US to 1000BC. Porter is not a sista. She just smartly snatched one of our black men..lol
All Star Posted October 6, 2008 Posted October 6, 2008 Porter is not a sista. She just smartly snatched one of black men..lol And now here we are left on LS looking for men because Porter has our man. LOL Poter, Do you have a brother I can go out with?
porter218 Posted October 6, 2008 Posted October 6, 2008 The other way around is more difficult, Porter. My friend has been married to a white guy for 8 years now (and 3 kids), but his family has not entirely accepted her to this day. I would be seriously irritated if I were her:mad:. I am so glad to have the family that I have. Race has never been an issue at all for them, as long as I am happy that is all they care.
porter218 Posted October 6, 2008 Posted October 6, 2008 Porter? Are you a sista or not? If not, you better not have one of MY black men. LOL I just offered US to 1000BC. LMAO..Sorry. I am white. That would be interesting to see if 1000bc did take up your offer because I have only seen one Asian man with a black woman before. Not sure if it is because Asians don't like black women or black women don't like Asian men...I am thinking it is the second of those options.
porter218 Posted October 6, 2008 Posted October 6, 2008 And now here we are left on LS looking for men because Porter has our man. LOL Poter, Do you have a brother I can go out with? You 2 are funny.. Well, my brother has dated a few black women.
Shygirl15 Posted October 6, 2008 Posted October 6, 2008 LMAO..Sorry. I am white. That would be interesting to see if 1000bc did take up your offer because I have only seen one Asian man with a black woman before. Not sure if it is because Asians don't like black women or black women don't like Asian men...I am thinking it is the second of those options. I saw one asian male/black woman couple at the mall yesterday, and just I couldn't help but chuckle a little, lol you don't see this everyday. The woman was so dominating anyway. And across the hall from my apartment there's this cute black dude who dates an asian lady. The asian lady is soo fine, just the way black guys love it; full figured, very pretty face, bits of boobs and butt and very thick. I always flash him an angry stare whenever I meet them, I think he gets the message..lol
porter218 Posted October 6, 2008 Posted October 6, 2008 I saw one asian male/black woman couple at the mall yesterday, and just I couldn't help but chuckle a little, lol you don't see this everyday. The woman was so dominating anyway. And across the hall from my apartment there's this cute black dude who dates an asian lady. The asian lady is soo fine, just the way black guys love it; full figured, very pretty face, bits of boobs and butt and very thick. I always flash him an angry stare whenever I meet them, I think he gets the message..lol Well...that is way more common then the other way around. Hell...even my ex(black man) is now married to a Korean woman and they have a daughter together.
Eve Posted October 6, 2008 Posted October 6, 2008 H'mmm, quite an interesting discussion. I dont have any real answers, I just take things situation by situation. I think people date who they want to date because they have grown to like the person in some way or another. Personally, I dont care what colour a person is - I care about who they are as a person. There are bad people in every race but love has no colour. I think people know what type of person turns them on to that hot hot loving and as long as long as they dont try and poision peoples minds against others I dont really care. As for the person who wants to maintain his racial heritage, maybe he has no choice but to do so because of where he lives etc? I dont know. I cant say that I am that bothered - his loss. 10000BC, do what you are doing. If you live in an area where there isnt a racial mix, you will be in trouble in one way or another. BUT, you could be someone who changes the minds of others who have not met someone like you before. I cant see that you would be popular with me (as a Mother) because you seem to just be sleeping around at the moment (by the sounds of things).. but still I wish you luck in what you are doing and if it is not working out for you I would advise you to move on to somewhere which is more open to diversity. Really, you should be concentrating on your School work young man. This is an important time in your life.. (Sorry I couldnt help but be Mumsy there) Take care, Eve xx
serial muse Posted October 6, 2008 Posted October 6, 2008 Two threads going on here. First people date who they are attracted to, as has been said over and again. Who you are attracted to can be influenced by many things including racism. But dating only inside your race may not be driven by racism nor should it in and of itself be racism, unless you take a very literal definition. Now the whole thing about race purity is absolute 1930's nonsense. Races exists due to evolution and natural selection that was driven by environmental conditions. Remove the environmental conditions through globalization and there is no longer evolutionary pressure to preserve these traits. Currently race is only being preserved by cultural pressure, there is no biological or physical reason for races to continue to exist. So from a biological perspective a homogeneous population is the obvious outcome. Reposted, because I think this sums it up so darn well, in that: 1. People can date whomever they like and are attracted to. Obviously. 2. But this talk of race purity is damn scary. There's a BIG difference between stating your personal dating preference and outlining a plan for the "conservation" of a race. As though it has jack to do with evolution, which is primarily concerned with the preservation of a species - of which we are all a part. As was also pointed out earlier, it's biologically and genetically far better to mix races, and if Evolution had a brain and a mouth, it would probably be shouting at everyone to mix it up, stat. And the fact that mixing it up is so darn easy to do, biologically, is enough to indicate to anyone who knows anything about genetics that we're all very, very similar people. So enough with the 1930s crap.
LoveDeluxe78 Posted October 6, 2008 Posted October 6, 2008 Reposted, because I think this sums it up so darn well, in that: 1. People can date whomever they like and are attracted to. Obviously. 2. But this talk of race purity is damn scary. There's a BIG difference between stating your personal dating preference and outlining a plan for the "conservation" of a race. As though it has jack to do with evolution, which is primarily concerned with the preservation of a species - of which we are all a part. As was also pointed out earlier, it's biologically and genetically far better to mix races, and if Evolution had a brain and a mouth, it would probably be shouting at everyone to mix it up, stat. And the fact that mixing it up is so darn easy to do, biologically, is enough to indicate to anyone who knows anything about genetics that we're all very, very similar people. So enough with the 1930s crap. What an intelligent, well articulated post! I was about to post the same thing. When it comes to attraction, it's a very complex issue in that sometimes it is beyond explanation or analysis - you are attracted to whoever you're attracted to. I understand that there are plenty of people NOT attracted to those outside of their racial group, which is understandable, and kudos to them, but you are right, big difference between preference for not dating outside your race v. this elaborate, extreme, desperate system involving conservation of a race - it sounds so Nazi Germany to me! That's just plain extreme and outdated point of view and frankly, also doesn't make sense in that each race is not a species; we are a HUMAN species, and thus interracial marriage and procreation does not lead to "weakening" of the human race at all!!! Then you take into consideration the fact that with the advent of technology, and ease of travel, and diversity in our world and our interactions that it makes sense, or at the very least, not inherently unnatural for people to be interracially marrying or coupling up. It's not like centuries ago where races were much more isolated and not interacting with one another. With that said, to the OP, perhaps the girls you are meeting are just NOT attracted to Asian men, at least from first impressions. However, if I may share, when I was in college and even grad school, I'd see couples where I just thought, "No way would they be together outside of meeting in school or in some common arena." And it's not just race, but you'd see the cool girl dating the loner, pothead, or the popular guy dating a not so pretty girl, and sometimes that happens because perhaps they started as friends first, so if these girls weren't initially attracted to you, then perhaps become friends with them and let your personality shine! If it still doesn't work, then you gotta just move on! Dating IS a numbers game anyhow!
Author 10000BC Posted October 6, 2008 Author Posted October 6, 2008 Wow, I had no idea would be so popular. My first crush, on a sexual level, was a black girl actually. I was 12, she was 14, from Ghana, and had a developed body with the perfect combination. In school, she would tease us by wearing tight see through yellow tops and bend down to talk to you....I think I had a hardon all the time... Hell, we didn't focus on what the teacher was saying...and of course the girl always got into trouble with the teachers... So YES, I will date a black girl! My grandma won't be happy but she's from the old generation. She was upset when I was dating a Latina, and European girls too, so don't feel bad. I have gone out with Brunettes, Blondes (real), Latina, Asian. I've also like Indian chicks, as well as native. Unfortunately, we have very very few black girls here, but as I said, I will date people I find attractive, no matter the race!!!!!!!!! The best girl I've dated so far has been Latina, and I absolutely adored her, her language and cultural values... So don't say I put white pussy on a pedestal. I"VE HAD IT, including the so-called perfection (by SKS) of a blonde hair blue eyed Scandinavian and guess what? I didn't feel anything special...I like white girls but I also like other chicks, can't I make myself a bit more clear? I'm just saying somehow American white girls and Canadian white girls I've known are less open compared to others, and even though I know they have no obligation to date me, I do wish they would be less prejudiced, because that enlarges the dating pool! I can't say anything about black girls here, because here we barely have any to begin with. Jeesus christ. Attractive Asians: http://fashionindie.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/takeshi_kaneshiro_01.jpg Takeshi Kaneshiro...actor and model...for Armani I think...can't remember There's more out there.
Author 10000BC Posted October 6, 2008 Author Posted October 6, 2008 BTW I just recently turned 21 so thats the age group I'm talking about...how old are you guys? Can't say I'm too experienced with relationships yet, and I haven't been with 30 girls, but have seen enough over the years to form my opinion.
Jilly Bean Posted October 6, 2008 Posted October 6, 2008 I'm just saying somehow American white girls and Canadian white girls I've known are less open compared to others, and even though I know they have no obligation to date me, I do wish they would be less prejudiced, because that enlarges the dating pool! Sooo...rather than get frustrated with the women who WON'T date you, why not concentrate on the ones who WILL? Personally, I don't find Asian men attractive in the slightest (Im a white girl). BUT, I also have known white guys who will ONLY date Asian women or Latinas, and NOT white women. So, what? Thats fine with me - to each their own, right? There are PLENTY of people out there... You are not going to change personal taste and desires, so you are better off focusing on the women who DO pose interest. Since you are so open-minded and not limiting your options by race, this should provide you with a nice sampling pool to select from.
Author 10000BC Posted October 7, 2008 Author Posted October 7, 2008 bump black girls, respond...cuz I did
Shygirl15 Posted October 7, 2008 Posted October 7, 2008 bump black girls, respond...cuz I did Sorry, what was the question again?
Shygirl15 Posted October 7, 2008 Posted October 7, 2008 if I'd date a black girl Of course, why not? But you don't have any in Canada where you are, do you? Or were you referring to us, LS black ladies who offered ourselves to you today?
Author 10000BC Posted October 7, 2008 Author Posted October 7, 2008 haha, yeah you guys are sorta rare here. Unless in Montreal/Toronto, where there are more. So, did you click on that picturelink I had 2-3 posts ago?
Green Posted October 7, 2008 Posted October 7, 2008 Sks you quote the nature preserve system... but truely the animals in thes nature preserves end up being sick and inbred. When ever you look to artificialy preserve something you do more harm then if you had just let things take place. If people of different races want to date you just come off as some close minded abiration spouting your quasi religious beliefs that compare humans to dog breeds. OP BC Look man I seriously think you should just move if things are as bad in small town Canada as you say they are. I really think you'll have no problem with women once you learn how to overcome your self doubt.
Sks Posted October 7, 2008 Posted October 7, 2008 Sks you quote the nature preserve system... but truely the animals in thes nature preserves end up being sick and inbred. When ever you look to artificialy preserve something you do more harm then if you had just let things take place. That occurs when there is a very limited population, with a population of 100 million - that would not occur, as slight variations will exist within them - but they still share the same major traits.
Green Posted October 7, 2008 Posted October 7, 2008 That occurs when there is a very limited population, with a population of 100 million - that would not occur, as slight variations will exist within them - but they still share the same major traits. You seem to waist alot of energy on things you have no control over and that in the long run will only hurt you personaly.
RecordProducer Posted October 7, 2008 Posted October 7, 2008 1. People can date whomever they like and are attracted to. Obviously. 2. But this talk of race purity is damn scary. There's a BIG difference between stating your personal dating preference and outlining a plan for the "conservation" of a race. As though it has jack to do with evolution, which is primarily concerned with the preservation of a species - of which we are all a part. This was going to be my next resonse. Thanks. I have many preferences regarding men and if I start posting them publicly, I will offend 99% of the people on this forum. Let me just give you one: I don't like men with round faces. I have a round face, but I don't like it in a man. I also have preferences regarding complexion, height, built, even the shape of nose (I like it crooked ) and jaw. But with the right charm and personality, ANY decent-looking guy could conquer my heart. Of course, he would have to meet my emotional and intellectual preferences, as well. Asian people have a reputation of smart, nice, hard-working, well-educated, and successful folks in this country. You will rarely find a second generation of immigrants working at your local Chinese buffet. Asians on average have the highest IQ of all races. The only criterion as to whether I would date an Asian guy would be how much he attracts me physically and on other fronts. Has anyone ever heard of the phrase "Asian trash"? That speaks volumes of this race. With that being said, even if I never meet a man of another race that will attract me, I will never support the assertion that other people should NOT have interracial relationships, if they are happy with them. My sons are free to marry members of another races, as long as they are decent girls. I would never raise the question of race and I would love my mixed-race grandkids. One of my sons told me he loved the Asian girls' silky hair, and I was thinking: hm... maybe I'm going to have a little Asian doll in about 20 years?
Sks Posted October 7, 2008 Posted October 7, 2008 You seem to waist alot of energy on things you have no control over We all have influence, I may not have direct control but I have an affect - albeit much smaller then the media, or prominent figures, but an affect none the less.
Green Posted October 7, 2008 Posted October 7, 2008 We all have influence, I may not have direct control but I have an affect - albeit much smaller then the media, or prominent figures, but an affect none the less. yeah your affect is you've disturbed me and countless others by spewing your extremily nazi sounding philiosophies. and you litteraly I mean literally have no affect toward anything that your actualy talking about... Think about it if some danish girl came on here and read this do you think shes all of a sudden going to change her dating patterns or break up with her hypothetical italian bf or what ever... of course not. The only effect you had was to amuse people with your ideas and disturb countless others
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