mortensorchid Posted October 5, 2008 Posted October 5, 2008 This was a semi strange situation I thought I would share. I decided to get back into the scene again after the disappointment from the Cake Man earlier and start looking on line. I have met my share of losers so far, which left me rather depressed. (One told me he was approached for a check cashing scam which he went into and ended up $10,000 in the hole which I was horrified to find out that someone would actually be that neive to go into something like that. But I digress...) So this week, I met a person on line. We had been chatting back and forth via email for a while. Then we decided to meet. We met at a bookstore and chatted for a long time. He seemed right on. He did mention to me that he had a five year old son, which I didn't recall hearing about in previous conversations, but I didn't hold it against him. For now. Then on the phone (before we met) he said he was having a party that weekend and said if there was chemistry between me and him that he would want to invite me. We met, and he never mentioned anything about the party to me, not that we didn't have a good conversation. He sent me a text message the next night saying he wondered what I thought of him. I said I thought he was right on. No response. (And those were the words I used, "Right On".) And I did not receive an invite to the party. Now, I'm not angry or disappointed in this. I have a lot of friends and things going on, so I wasn't waiting by the phone for him. Am I being blown off here? I'm not going to call him again, he can contact me if he is interested. Just thought I would share.
lonelyandfrustrated Posted October 5, 2008 Posted October 5, 2008 Yeah, I think that was a blow-off. Sorry. But hey, saves you time to spend on the next prospect, right?
Author mortensorchid Posted October 5, 2008 Author Posted October 5, 2008 Yeah, looks like he deleted his profile from the website where I found him too. Oh well. Next I guess.
pretty professional Posted October 5, 2008 Posted October 5, 2008 That is bizarre that he would text you asking you what you thought about him then blow you off. Guys who send texts like that instead of calling are usually insecure losers. They don't face reality. Guys who text instead of call aren't really into you - they are just into you being into them. They need the ego boost. Remember this, girls.
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