eugene3 Posted October 5, 2008 Posted October 5, 2008 Can i get some feedback on indifference...meaning your ex feels indiffernce meaning could care less about you with someone else or anythiing having to do with your life. My ex knows i have been talking to an old ex gf and she said she is happy for me and that what i do with my life only has to do with me and no longer her. second thing... once they act that way i would say its over for good they are not coming back. do you all agree??? can we get some stories that there ex acted this way over time and they came back????
Geishawhelk Posted October 5, 2008 Posted October 5, 2008 Eugene... if your ex has moved on, it's a clear sign you should too.....
Trialbyfire Posted October 5, 2008 Posted October 5, 2008 Once indifference sets in, it's time to move onto indifference. Try not to hold onto someone who's already gone.
WiseOne1 Posted October 7, 2008 Posted October 7, 2008 My ex told me she was happy to see that I moved on. So then she started to ask questions over and over about the new girl, atlest 4 hrs str8. She then started bragging about her new relationship and how great it was. She says that shes so happy for me, and then she started to cry and throw fits and curse me out, and she said she loved me and wanted me back. Then the next day she changed her mind, she said she didnt know what came over her.
lofi_tokyo Posted October 7, 2008 Posted October 7, 2008 I think indifference is kind of a harsh word. Or maybe its not. Maybe shes just sincerely happy for you. In the case of my first, FIRST, love, I like hearing hes happy. I like hearing he has someone to love. I loved him once, with all my heart, but I myself have moved on, but I still care about him. He was, and always will be, an important part of my life, just not in the same way he once was. So its not indifference, just maybe not what you expect to hear... But maybe indifference happens too, I don't know, I havn't experienced it personally. Also, Wiseone is right, I think. People can play indifferent, thats for sure. But I think it kinda goes one of two ways - you're either sincerely happy the person has moved on, or are putting on a facade to hide your jealousy.
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