gummybear Posted October 4, 2008 Posted October 4, 2008 Because after this date, I'm now TOTALLY sure that I don't want to date him. I was bored to tears and he was kinda weird. I learned he smokes and is a big partier. I mean I like partying *some* of the time but he does it regularly. But still I'm glad I went cuz at least no regrets. I kinda cut the date short (left at 3pm) because I just could not take it anymore. He asked if I wanted to go to this crazy club with him tonight and I was just like 'uh, no thanks.' I would never had thought that he was this kind of person becuase he invited me to go this amusement park to look at sea creatures as a date...I figured he was a non-partier type of guy. I was WAY wrong. He was basically the sterotypica LA boy from the way he talked and dress to the kind of things he did. Gosh, he's like 180 of my ex, who was just so sweet and lived with his great grandmother and took care of her. He was also a mama's boy and a gentleman who was very thoughtful. He was the nice guy type. Knowing that just made this date more disappointing....
Capricciosa Posted October 5, 2008 Posted October 5, 2008 Well I'm glad you went and got your answer. No more thinking about him. And it doesn't sound like you're over your ex yet, so maybe you need to not date right now.
Angel1111 Posted October 5, 2008 Posted October 5, 2008 Told ya. Ok, couldn't resist. Your instincts are very good - you should learn to listen to them more often. He sounds like a child. I'm thinking that the reason he 'forgot' to call the other day was because he was either partying or sleeping with another girl. Interesting how he sets up dates that are so counterintuitive to his own personality.
Author gummybear Posted October 5, 2008 Author Posted October 5, 2008 Told ya. Ok, couldn't resist. Your instincts are very good - you should learn to listen to them more often. He sounds like a child. I'm thinking that the reason he 'forgot' to call the other day was because he was either partying or sleeping with another girl. Interesting how he sets up dates that are so counterintuitive to his own personality. Haha yea. On our first date, he seemed normal. I think he invited me to the sea creature amusement park because I said I like this kind of stuff (I've been to alot of other amusements parks and the zoo etc) when we first met. But woah did I learn alot of stuff about him on the second date...he even talked different. I have to say that yes a woman's instincts are pretty good. I've rarely been wrong in the past with my instincts.
SushiX Posted October 14, 2008 Posted October 14, 2008 It sounds like you two just aren't compatible. He sounds like a badboy. It's a good thing you left him before he left you, because he's probably calling up the other girl now when he told you he "forgot" He can care less. Happens all the time.
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