vballtay Posted October 4, 2008 Posted October 4, 2008 hey guys. i'm kind of confused as to what is going on through his head and what better random people to ask then fellow y chromosome carriers. anyways. long story short, this guy was into me, but he was 'into' so many girls at the same time i thought it was kind of weird (and dangerous!) so i turned him down. we remained 'friends', if you could call it that i guess. although i'm not really sure i like the relationship i have now with him. sure he stares and smiles and acts like a real casanova around me, but i feel like he treats me as an object of lust rather than a person lol, and that i am just another notch on his belt of 'hot chicks' that he talks to. he only talks to me if he tries to make some kind of sexual related inferences, and if i'm having a not so great day as i did recently, he asks what's wrong but when i explain he just kind of brushes it off and i definately don't feel like he really cares! but maybe that's just a men thing. haha i was asking him some advice on a new guy that's *possibly* interested in me, and he replies with a 'i don't think he is a good guy for you. you don't really know him, you don't know the way he acts, get to know him first before you decide you like him' etc etc (he kept going on) so i'm like ok. i thanked him. however, i'm wondering if my 'friend' is really looking out for me, or if he just doesn't want to see me with anyone else, one of those 'if i can't have you, nobody can' deals (do people really do that?) lol. i have no clue and i think it could go either way honestly. so i'd like to have an outsider's opinion. what do you think? obviously the best way to know for SURE is if i asked HIM, but this comes pretty close thanks!
You'reasian Posted October 4, 2008 Posted October 4, 2008 i was asking him some advice on a new guy that's *possibly* interested in me, and he replies with a 'i don't think he is a good guy for you. you don't really know him, you don't know the way he acts, get to know him first before you decide you like him' etc etc (he kept going on) so i'm like ok. i thanked him. however, i'm wondering if my 'friend' is really looking out for me, or if he just doesn't want to see me with anyone else, one of those 'if i can't have you, nobody can' deals (do people really do that?) lol. i have no clue and i think it could go either way honestly. thanks! I think your friend has the right idea. Getting to know someone first is a wise choice in starting a relationship. Better to be rejected as trying to be friends first than to be involved in something and find out its not going to work.
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