eugene3 Posted October 4, 2008 Posted October 4, 2008 Curious... has anyone here been in my situation...lol i mean we all are in the same situation but what about in detail. Has anyone here had a ex that left them come back months and months later after breaking it off and saying that its over they are not coming back and that they have no feelings or love you anymore???
EmperorR Posted October 4, 2008 Posted October 4, 2008 I'm sure it happens, no one relationship is the same, but odds are pretty slim, thats why don't worry or think about it, its not going to change anything in the future just let it be live your life. As i always say I love my ex and i always will, if ever one day she comes back would I even want her then? who knows
foxh1234 Posted October 4, 2008 Posted October 4, 2008 Mine cheated on me and then dumped me 7 months ago. I tried to get her back for awhile and then gave up. A few months later she begged me to forgive her and take her back. I refused and said take a hike. She stalked me for awhile and then gave up after I told her there was no chance of getting back. So the answer is they do come back but most times it is too late.
alwayssme Posted October 4, 2008 Posted October 4, 2008 its been 2 months and he hasn't come back...highly doubt he will and don't want to hold on to false hope..so i'm moving on!
alwayssme Posted October 4, 2008 Posted October 4, 2008 oh and in all honesty..i know ALOT of people who have broken up with their significant others, and they NEVER got back together..and beleive me these were couples that were together for years and planned on getting married and everything..it's very weird but I haven't seen not even one case of it happening, that's why i'm even more hopeless..however i can tell u that they definetely moved on and found someone else =) so hey! that's something to hope for i guess the whole "the notebook" love story only happens in movies or in very rare cases in real life... =( but every story is different and it depends on the reasons for the break-up..good luck to u
EmperorR Posted October 4, 2008 Posted October 4, 2008 i know a couple who broke up, dated other people and years later got back together and now they have 2 kids and are happy, i know its rare, but every relationship is different
CherishG Posted October 4, 2008 Posted October 4, 2008 well I'm in a very complicated situation... we have a baby together. I'm hoping he'd wake up from his stupidness and smell the coffee and come back to us, but then I'm not going to hope too much. Only thing that makes me feel sooo pathetic and worthless is who's gonna want to date a girl with a baby?
alwayssme Posted October 4, 2008 Posted October 4, 2008 well I'm in a very complicated situation... we have a baby together. I'm hoping he'd wake up from his stupidness and smell the coffee and come back to us, but then I'm not going to hope too much. Only thing that makes me feel sooo pathetic and worthless is who's gonna want to date a girl with a baby? cherish,dont EVER think that someone wont date u because u have a baby..seriously i have MANY friends who have babies and are single. They are very confident and guys have no problem with it, honestly..that's the last thing u should worry about.
sedgwick Posted October 4, 2008 Posted October 4, 2008 Have you searched the archives? There are bazillions of posts about this.
trueblue72ny Posted October 4, 2008 Posted October 4, 2008 i know a couple they broke up and got back together after a year and a half. they both datd other people in the inbetween time. i think its possible if you dont hold a grudge against each other. but at the same time i dont think they were holding out for each other expecting to meet up again either. i was off and on with my ex for 3 years. i didnt expect to hear from her last time. we are off again now tho (2months and counting) and i am not expecting to hear from her. got to let it go and get on with things as much as it sucks. and if you rekindle something down the road, just be careful not to let your guard down too much if you dont feel they are 100%. bcause then you are just a welcome mat.
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