eugene3 Posted October 4, 2008 Posted October 4, 2008 Curious... has anyone here been in my situation...lol i mean we all are in the same situation but what about in detail. Has anyone here had a ex that left them come back months and months later after breaking it off and saying that its over they are not coming back and that they have no feelings or love you anymore???
Curmudgeon Posted October 4, 2008 Posted October 4, 2008 Has anyone here had a ex that left them come back months and months later after breaking it off and saying that its over they are not coming back and that they have no feelings or love you anymore??? Thankfully and blessedly, NO!
sultry33 Posted October 4, 2008 Posted October 4, 2008 Damn thats a frightning thought, i mean at the start yes i wanted it more then anything but now after he has been with someone else, hurt and used me.. treated me like a ass .. hell no i wouldnt spend a moment on him.. he left he wanted life without me.. i hope he is happy cus i sure am You have to ask yourself if the pain of trying again and maybe loosing them again is worth it.. there are plenty more out there who would treat you better.. plus the problems.. reasons for breaking up would need to be resolved. I love being in love and having someone in my life but it has to be he right one and someone leaving me is proof that they was wrong all along.. shame it took 4 yrs:) love yourself x
emotionalconfusion Posted October 5, 2008 Posted October 5, 2008 Curious... has anyone here been in my situation...lol i mean we all are in the same situation but what about in detail. Has anyone here had a ex that left them come back months and months later after breaking it off and saying that its over they are not coming back and that they have no feelings or love you anymore??? we've been very close still after 2 yrs of divorce,I'm finally not angry about what caused me to divorce her ,,she accepts why I did it,I'm the pushind to work on "us" again,,,,(married 18 yrs)
Zapbasket Posted October 5, 2008 Posted October 5, 2008 Uggghh, Eugene, that's awful. I may be in your situation: my ex called me earlier this week after nearly 2 years since our breakup and just said he hopes we can talk sometime in the near future. I'm afraid he's calling just to clear his conscience about the harsh way he ended our 5-year relationship, but will say he doesn't want, hasn't wanted, and can't forsee wanting to get back together with me. I don't think my vanity could handle that kind of demotion! Also, I feel like, the time to clear your conscience is in the moment, by breaking up respectfully with the one you once loved. Why should it be my job later on to provide a conscience-clearing? How are you coping, Eugene? I read your other thread and it sounds like she was very hurtful to you.
Curmudgeon Posted October 5, 2008 Posted October 5, 2008 we've been very close still after 2 yrs of divorce,I'm finally not angry about what caused me to divorce her ,,she accepts why I did it,I'm the pushind to work on "us" again,,,,(married 18 yrs) If that's what both of you want and it works for you then I hope it happens. Sometimes a break and well-earned rest can make all the difference, even in relationships or, perhaps, especially so. I think I could definitively say that were the ex and I to get back together (married 25 years), my life would take a downward turn and one huge result would be the reaction of our children who want nothing to do with her and who have good relationships with me. She wouldn't be worth losing them. Besides, my wife would likely be pissed!
Author eugene3 Posted October 5, 2008 Author Posted October 5, 2008 Its been 7 months since she broke it off. I am still in alot of pain thanks for asking. She stated that she has changed and feels different and that she does not love me anymore. We had problems the last few months of the relationship and she ended it saying she needed time then ended it 2 weeks later. Recently after fighting with her for months to give me my things back we meet and she gives them back only to take back the engagment ring. we were engaged for 5 months also. So now she has it and i don't understand why because she acts so indifference towards me but understood when she took the ring back we would have to see each other again to get it back. Read the post thats says "meeting outcome with ex" i wrote it explaines it all.
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