Gere51 Posted October 3, 2008 Posted October 3, 2008 Today is the 80th day of No Contact with my ex-girlfriend, that dumped me the day after Memorial Day. Just wish I had started NC at that point instead of six weeks later. In my case, she tried to contact me a few times after I shut her out via texting and calling, claiming that she wanted to be "friends", but I never responded. Every day I go without contact makes me feel stronger. It is my hope that someone else in my situation will see this and realize that it's the only way to recover.
trueblue72ny Posted October 3, 2008 Posted October 3, 2008 I am on day 5 of NC and it is hard right now. I just keep hoping it will get better the more time goes on. My ex works in the same office as me so it will be a little different. If I can do 60 days NC that will be a milestone for me. I have a calendar at my desk and every hour or two i color in a bit of the day with different colored highlighter, until at the end of the day it is filled up. I want to see the whole month filled up. It's hard!!!
Sysyphus28 Posted October 3, 2008 Posted October 3, 2008 you rock. It has been almost two weeks. ANd I feel like I am going to falter any day now. I miss her like crazy...........and she has not called.
Author Gere51 Posted October 3, 2008 Author Posted October 3, 2008 Stay strong and don't give in; no matter what. I'll be the first to admit that I miss her too, but it doesn't change anything. I know it's hard, but try to divert your thoughts from her.
selena_cat Posted October 3, 2008 Posted October 3, 2008 wow gere i'm on my almost 7 months and its a struggle i waas thinking of sending a mass-email after the presidential election, including his adress but most of my friends advised me not to,i shouldnt do that,its really a struggle
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