Milkflavor123 Posted October 3, 2008 Posted October 3, 2008 I post a lot- mainly about the same situation. But whatever direction I seem to take doesnt seem to help. I broke up with my boyfriend thinking it would solve the problem we were having. well it didn't solve anything- I still care about him. And its not that I am afraid of him dating other people- I am afraid of making the wrong choice by leaving him. I am 20 years old- just started up school, and I meet this guy in class. Well he is pretty much perfect it seems like. active, funny, caring, into the same things I am in. and, well he really likes me. he understands the situation I am in. Living with my ex, and he knows I still care about him. So i care about two people. i have this big crush on this person I just met, and then i still care about my ex who I saw my future with. I'm young, but it doesn't make the situation any better nor does it solve itself....... Sooo---- anyone have any stories??? And ideas???
Geishawhelk Posted October 3, 2008 Posted October 3, 2008 Er.... what problem were you having with your BF that made you think breaking up would solve things? How long were you together? How long have you been 'broken up'?
Author Milkflavor123 Posted October 3, 2008 Author Posted October 3, 2008 I broke up with him because I don't feel stable I guess. I got out of a terrible relationship a while ago and never allowed myself to heal. But its hard when you meet someone who you really care about and pretend that you dont. So I kept dating him. Till finally I found myself picking and nagging at him for everything he did. I hate myself acting that way. Its not healthy to be an angry person all the time. I needed my space and he wasn't giving it to me. Mind you, he had a drug addiction problem when we first starting dating that had a lot to do with me getting angry. he quit prescription drugs for me, but I kept finding other things to be upset about. So I told him that I needed a break to figure things out. So its been about two weeks. but we basically act like were still together. still telling one another we love each other.
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