memories are annoying me...EVERYWHERE!!!

[alwayssme]

One of the worst parts of getting over this is that i literally have memories with him everywhere...my house, friends houses, every movie theater, restaurant, my college,everywhere in the city basically...i spent too much time with him and its making it hard..cuz everywhere i go it reminds me of him.....heartbreaks suckkkk!! they hurt too much and there is nothin u can do but wait for time to pass

[survivingcollege]

I'm sitting at my desk at home right now and all I have to do is look an inch to my left and there's something there that's going to remind me of my ex.

Here are some fun examples.

The perfume he bought me, the dresser we painted together, the shoes still lying on the floor from the last time we saw each other, the lipstick he loved on me, even the fact that he was the one who last changed my sheets!!!!

 

So.. don't feel alone on this one.. i too am going crazy.. and that's only the things that are in my ROOM. Don't get me started on my car, kitchen, bathroom.. even campus. I am safe nowhere!

[alwayssme]

haha same here..it sucks

[CherishG]

Ya it is extremely difficult!!!

and considering my situation, I have a almost 2yr old daughter with my ex,

and just seeing her everyday, she looks just like him, a mini-me version of him... it breaks my heart.

Don't get me wrong, I looooooove my baby, but seeing that she's so much like him in every way,

it breaks my heart because I feel like it's going to be simply impossible to get over him. When I look into her eyes, I see him,

and then I'm reminded of how he broke my heart and threw all our dreams away.

 

In a way, I'm envious of you alwayysme, the things around you that remind you of him are material, and can be removed to forget...

but in my case, my daughter reminds me everyday of him, and I'm trying to be strong for her because I'm all she's got now.

Good luck to u alwayysme.

[alwayssme]

thank u cherish...same to you..hopefully we'll get through this sooner than later