lilmisscheerful Posted October 2, 2008 Posted October 2, 2008 My mum has a favourite phrase 'Every cup has a saucer'. By this, she means that everyone should be able to find a partner. But I was wondering, what if this isn't true. I'd love to meet someone but I'm 30 next year and I've never been in love. It just seems that some people find it easy to meet datable men and women but I don't. I'm not too different from friends - similar level of attractiveness, age, hobbies, education etc. So why are things so different for me? I've liked guys over the years but one for reason or another they haven't wanted to take things further, and this makes me feel a bit sad. Like they were lost opportunities.
Art_Critic Posted October 2, 2008 Posted October 2, 2008 Age 30 is a good age for love.. you are more mature and have lived enough of your life to have a grasp on what you want.. You'll find a guy..Just stop looking and one will find you .. that is the way it always works.
BoerumHill Posted October 2, 2008 Posted October 2, 2008 my saucer got broken... to bits... Superglue! Agree with above from Art Critic. I was so clueless in my 20s. 30s is a great time to have a fun and meaningful relationship. BTW, love your mom's idiom, its just perfect (and true).
JamesM Posted October 2, 2008 Posted October 2, 2008 my saucer got broken... to bits... You beat me to it. That was our response when we were told that every cup has its saucer. "What if my saucer was broken?" Or "What if my saucer thinks she matches another cup?" Anyhow, it is a difficult answer to give. Using another cliche..."No one gets wet if they stay out of the rain." So it is with love. One has to exhaust all possible means of looking. But as Art said, sometimes if we quit looking, the person is right there in front of us. Relax and make friends with no other purpose in mind. And while 30 is getting older (not to me though), it is certainly not the end of life or finding a mate.
2sunny Posted October 3, 2008 Posted October 3, 2008 You beat me to it. That was our response when we were told that every cup has its saucer. "What if my saucer was broken?" Or "What if my saucer thinks she matches another cup?" Anyhow, it is a difficult answer to give. Using another cliche..."No one gets wet if they stay out of the rain." So it is with love. One has to exhaust all possible means of looking. But as Art said, sometimes if we quit looking, the person is right there in front of us. Relax and make friends with no other purpose in mind. And while 30 is getting older (not to me though), it is certainly not the end of life or finding a mate. ummmm, i quit looking - which seems fine for now and will for a while... i'm in hibernation mode. good thing i enjoy being alone a good amount of time.
Green Posted October 3, 2008 Posted October 3, 2008 So......... hmmmmm almost 30 eh well you've got a few more years of hotness left posibly. Your not fat are you? I would sugest .......... I dunno................ I suck at helping women.... If you were a guy I'd tell you to go to the mall and hit on women you like or a bookstore. and then I'd tell you to take them somewhere you can talk like a lounge or something and then kiss them......
Author lilmisscheerful Posted October 3, 2008 Author Posted October 3, 2008 So......... hmmmmm almost 30 eh well you've got a few more years of hotness left posibly. Your not fat are you? I'm 28 and three quarters actually! No not fat - around 125 pounds and 5ft7
Isolde Posted October 4, 2008 Posted October 4, 2008 Has anyone expressed interest in you, but you felt they weren't dateable? Just wondering...
Isolde Posted October 4, 2008 Posted October 4, 2008 So......... hmmmmm almost 30 eh well you've got a few more years of hotness left posibly. Your not fat are you? I would sugest .......... I dunno................ I suck at helping women.... If you were a guy I'd tell you to go to the mall and hit on women you like or a bookstore. and then I'd tell you to take them somewhere you can talk like a lounge or something and then kiss them...... Lots of women look good into their early forties KMT, these days
Jersey Shortie Posted October 4, 2008 Posted October 4, 2008 What happens if I'm a mug? Well, I think God made men and women to be partners in life. At the end of the day, it makes us a better man or woman because we learn how to support and love and deal with another human being. So yes, I think every cup has a saucer...and sometimes, when your saucer gets broken, you can find a really good one that ends up matching your cup perfectly at a garage sale.
Green Posted October 4, 2008 Posted October 4, 2008 as long as your not a butter face I love you already. Oh yeah and you wouldn't know this but I like women to smell a certain way... it helps if they have no dogs or cats.... oh and you gotta really like sex or at a minimum be up for it even if you have a head ache or what ever. 125lbs thats really good I could throw you far
Jersey Shortie Posted October 4, 2008 Posted October 4, 2008 KMT, I think you would have more luck bedding a real saucer then a woman anyway.
Green Posted October 4, 2008 Posted October 4, 2008 KMT, I think you would have more luck bedding a real saucer then a woman anyway. I don't get it your love struck with me? I can bed women pretty easily the only reason it doesn't happen more often is because thats not what I'm all about
Jersey Shortie Posted October 4, 2008 Posted October 4, 2008 I don't get it your love struck with me? You're intelligence amazes me. I'm sure you will begin to figure it out. I can bed women pretty easily the only reason it doesn't happen more often is because thats not what I'm all about Yes, you sound like a deep man from your butter face and "bang her hard" posts.
Green Posted October 4, 2008 Posted October 4, 2008 wow you have absolutly no idea how to use the smiley faces:p
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