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Hello.

 

I'm a twenty three year old woman. I've met someone and wondering what to do...

 

Long story short: we met at a bar with mutual friends, ended up kissing and walking down the road, he got the cab home, I went to my place, the next day be sent me some sms's, we chatted online for a while, he comments on my livejournal.. I sent him a message last night, I guess as a way of showing I was thinking of him saying I hoped he was having fun, at the suggestion of a friend, and he didn't write back. Now I know guys like to often take their time, not to appear too keen, but it's thurs afternoon I met him sunday night... he hasn't actually called to chat or asked me out. When we spoke online before I signed off he said he hopes he can hang out before too long...

 

Here's the deal:

 

1 - should I tell him I dig him, would love to go for drinks...

2 - go along to a book group with him, which I am anyway, and see what happens?

3 - Just forget it

 

I feel like he is into it but I'm unsure..

 

Thanks!

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Go to the book group with him and drop some signs (like touching and eye contact) to let him know you're interested. If he's too blind to notice you all touchy and "intimate" with him using your eyes, then something else may be in order. Try that first, though. Don't be too pushy, yet.

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