Thunder bay Posted October 1, 2008 Posted October 1, 2008 I really want to move on with my life, but how can i when im still in love with my ex even though we split up 16 months ago! I havn't seen her since then, & there isnt really any contact, please does anyone have any advice to help me?? Thank you.
alwayssme Posted October 1, 2008 Posted October 1, 2008 well first i was just wondering...how old are u? and when u say u arent really over her, do u mean like u still cry and hurt over her or are u content wit ur life but u think of her from time to time?
Author Thunder bay Posted October 1, 2008 Author Posted October 1, 2008 I'm 28, i can still cry over her from time to time, iam trying to get on with my life but she is always there in my thoughts every day i just keep going over the good times we had & i know i lost a good one.After all this time i still cant even imagine being in a new relationship!!.
alwayssme Posted October 1, 2008 Posted October 1, 2008 im going through a break-up too, it hasn't been that long but it hurts alot...honestly everyone heals differently and the thing about time, is that it actually takes time...sometimes u cant really move on because u havent met someone that ur interested in...weird to say this but in my past relationships the only way i moved on from someone is when i found someone i actually LIKED (not faking it, by using the person to get over someone else)...now i have nobody i like besides my ex and thats why dealing with my break-up its horrible...when was the last time u talked to your ex or even heard anythign about them?
Author Thunder bay Posted October 1, 2008 Author Posted October 1, 2008 Thank you alwayssme what you say makes sense, the different people that i try & meet just dont compare to her in anyway, & like you say i havn't met anyone i "like" even friends dont make me laugh the way she did. what i find most difficult is that i know for a fact shes getting on with her life & has met loads of new people who i know she likes, i guess i sound a bit pathetic! she tried to contact me very very briefly about 2 months ago, but i didnt respond because theres no way she even wants to be friends with me, which i would love to be with her.
alwayssme Posted October 1, 2008 Posted October 1, 2008 lol read my thread..im on a similar situation except that its only been two months...we just gotta keep going and always remember there's people out there who are hurting just like you are, your not alone...
Author Thunder bay Posted October 1, 2008 Author Posted October 1, 2008 I read your thread...i'm sure you will get there in the end, its still early days for you.
Tower233 Posted October 2, 2008 Posted October 2, 2008 It's been almost a year since I seen the women I want to spend my life with. We click at every point and we both love each other but circumstances don't permit it. I compare everyone I meet to the feeling and happiness she brings me. It's so hard and I really have no advice but your not alone. I'm 28, i can still cry over her from time to time, iam trying to get on with my life but she is always there in my thoughts every day i just keep going over the good times we had & i know i lost a good one.After all this time i still cant even imagine being in a new relationship!!.
EmperorR Posted October 2, 2008 Posted October 2, 2008 lol read my thread..im on a similar situation except that its only been two months...we just gotta keep going and always remember there's people out there who are hurting just like you are, your not alone... yup i felt so alone at first until i searched and discovered loveshack, i still feel liek garbage etc. but at least i know other poeple are feeling as garbage with me lol. I carry cali guy's NC guide with me at all times, incase i ever get anxious I take it out.
Author Thunder bay Posted October 2, 2008 Author Posted October 2, 2008 What is the no contact guide???
Author Thunder bay Posted October 2, 2008 Author Posted October 2, 2008 Why am i still so in love!!?? i dont want to be, i miss her sooooooo much!!!!!!
SRV Posted October 2, 2008 Posted October 2, 2008 Here it is. Read it, embrace it and it will help in easing the pain. [COLOR=#660000]The No Contact Guide[/COLOR]
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