sedona Posted October 1, 2008 Posted October 1, 2008 Ok, he's not world-famous or anything, but *everyone* here knows him, and he's really popular with people of all ages. And he's really busy because of his work. When I tell people that he's my BF, the response - without fail -- is "Are you kidding?" Not that there's anything wrong with me, mind you -- but we're not exactly in the same league, at least in terms of public recognition. We've been together for 2-3 months, starting almost right after I went through a really tough time with my previous commitmentphobic BF. Things are great, we have fun together, we're together almost every night despite his work. I felt absolutely great until... I started to feel something more for him, until it started to feel serious for me. Now I feel a bit anxious that he'll snap out of it soon and drop me. I have to admit that I liked things better when I didn't care as much. I almost feel like calling it quits just to avoid being really hurt in the future, but how idiotic would that be? Why can't I just relax, stop analyzing, and enjoy something good? Is this at all normal? Anyone?
Konfuzion Posted October 1, 2008 Posted October 1, 2008 Its very normal its called fear of rejection (possibly being alone), so to protect yourself you drop him before he can drop you. Its time to let go and enjoy the moment. And if you cant do that seek out some counseling, should only take a few sessions Good luck.
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