VeN Posted October 1, 2008 Posted October 1, 2008 Well, I'm in High School, a senior to be exact and I never had a girlfriend. I do not have much of a fear of talking to girls but I have the horrid deficiency of not knowing how to start a conversation with girls I do not know. I can carry a conversation if it just "happens", but I cannot make it happen and stick with it. My problem is as follows: I have this girl that was in at least two of my classes Junior year and now is in one of my classes Senior year but I have not came across the moment to speak with her. Basically, the class I have with her is the not the best moment to talk to her; at least to my opinion. She always sits with her friends and I sit almost across the room. I really would like to somehow start a conversation with her, but I do not know how to start it off. This class is in the middle of the day, so seeing her after class will be limited. I also do not want to her to know how pathetic I am for having her in many of my classes last year and never saying a word. Lastly, I thought maybe I could start off by seeing her in the hallway and asking her the homework for the specific class to get her to notice me. Any ideas would be great.
D-Jam Posted October 1, 2008 Posted October 1, 2008 Wait for a chance or make a chance. Run into her or something. Ask her about something said in class. Introduce yourself and be friendly. When you see her, say hi, be friendly, see if conversation happens. So Monday morning you ask how her weekend was. If you two get chatting on Thurs or Fri, ask her if she's doing anything interesting over the weekend. It's just taking risks, using an ice breaker, and then going from there. I'd also tell you to try to find out what her social life is. So maybe you two end up at the football game or "Stifler's" party...where you can more freely chat.
Konfuzion Posted October 1, 2008 Posted October 1, 2008 You just need to be confident + you already have one up like you said you have no issue carrying a conversation, so just walk up to her even if she is with friends and start talking to her. This is something in life you can take with you, is the confidence to walk right up to a girl you find attractive and just start talking.
Author VeN Posted October 1, 2008 Author Posted October 1, 2008 I'm just at a loss on how to approach her when, for example, she is walking down the hallway, I do not want her to find me weird. I guess I can use the homework thing, but what should I do after, "I say Hi, do you know what the homework was for class?" Then she goes ahead and tells me whatever it is. Now at this point what do I do? Do I say "Thanks, bye?"? Do I now walk away?
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