Terminator Posted October 1, 2008 Posted October 1, 2008 ::blows nose and hands Stamp a tissue:: So sorry dude.
Die Hard Posted October 1, 2008 Posted October 1, 2008 October is my favorite romantic month, with the crisp fall air, fires on the patio, wine on the porch, football on Friday nights, etc... And I was right, I AM alone now, and it is October... we didnt make itIf you'll keep NC next October will be the best you've ever had. I love this time of year. A year ago i was involved with a mw and it ruined the hell out of it. This fall has been utterly sweet and rewarding. I think I appreciate it more after having been through what I have. No pain no gain.
Die Hard Posted October 1, 2008 Posted October 1, 2008 no problem dude. Just stick with it. i know you can't see it now, and that's normal, but there is a life for you after this is over. all the anxiety and panic will be replaced with bliss and happiness if you just give it time. the thoughts of despair and feelings of pain are an illusion, though no less painful. but when the illusion lifts you'll be shocked. it's like being reborn. i learned a LOT about myself during the painful times.
mistresswchildren Posted October 2, 2008 Posted October 2, 2008 SD, After about a month of absolute NC, I felt better. I felt stronger. I cannot imagine what you are going through. We all go through so many different things when it has ended. All I know is that you will end up stronger after all of this is said and done. You are young. You have a lot of life ahead of you. I understand what you mean when you say you felt it was the love of a lifetime. I still feel that way some days. Just be glad that you had that feeling. That is all I can tell you. I know that I feel like I will never have it again, but that really isn't true. Think about what it will be like to be in a "healthy" relationship. I am certain that you will be able to open your heart in ways you never thought possible when the person that you are loving can do the same for you. Right now is not the time for that though. Right now, is the time for mourning. It's okay. You had a lot with this woman. It was an amazing time for you. It is over, and it hurts like h***. It won't feel that way soon. I promise. Keep your head up!
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