bish Posted October 6, 2008 Posted October 6, 2008 " Why can't she take it 2 heart? After all, if what you say about these posters is true, then their reaction 2 her affair might be the closest thing she'll see 2 how her H would react if she chose 2 be truthful with him. Exactly!!! Very good. But they don't care about what is going on in the mind of who they betrayed. Maybe if they did, they'd know how to deal with someone they claim to love.
Owl Posted October 6, 2008 Posted October 6, 2008 Soulconfessions, I'm curious...you never answered my question. What kind of support/help/etc... were you hoping to find when you posted here originally? What were you hoping that posting here would do for you? I wanted to ask this for a third time, since my other two requests were apparently missed. Its a valid point, and it might help you to figure out what it was about the responses you got that offended you.
SoulStorm Posted October 7, 2008 Posted October 7, 2008 Then why do you continue to come to this site and respond to these threads? I was asking an honest question...if you understood what you were hoping to find by coming here, you'd either be able to adapt your expectations, or be steered to a board more suitable to your goals. There's no point in continuing to return to a site if you refuse to consider ANY of the posters's responses. If you can't answer my question about what you were hoping to find, maybe you can explain why you're still here after declaring this site unworthy and announcing your departure? Do not take to heart what she is doing Owl. She is lashing out because she feels she was treated unjustly. It is funny how people who cause harm cannot take it when someone calls them on what they are doing wrong. Honestly, you cannot expect praise for unjustly betraying anyone. Her reactions show how deep seated her soul has been damaged. Responding with highly charged sarcastic remarks and trying to cut people with insults because she feels she has been insulted. On some of the postings she has, but people have honestly offered advice. On forums like this you have to eat the grass and spit out the sticks.
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