beave13 Posted October 1, 2008 Posted October 1, 2008 me and my girl have been together for over 2 years now. it has been the best relationship i have ever been in. she recently decided to move back to her home state, which is 1,500 miles away. she assured me that everything was gonna be fine and that we would talk all the time and visit each other as much as possible. since she left everything has changed. she barely calls me and she never answers or returns my calls. i feel like i am the least important person in her life. yesterday i let her know how this has been making me feel and i think it pushed her away. i am so confused and i dont know if i should have expressed my feelings the way i did. what do i do from here?....and why is she treating me like this to begin with?
Geishawhelk Posted October 1, 2008 Posted October 1, 2008 Hmmmm...... I hate to say it, but it sounds as if she was really, really in to you when she was with you, but unfortunately is no longer really in to you now she's gone. "Absence is to love, what wind is to fire: it enflames the great, but extinguishes the small." It seems a heartless thing to say, but it seems that perhaps, although she may have believed she was very in love with you, when she was with you, her feelings have closed down now...maybe it's a self-defence mechanism. maybe it just didn't click with her but she didn't realise it. Either way.... it doesn't look good.....
jjjustplaying Posted October 2, 2008 Posted October 2, 2008 Same thing just happened to me since im at college now and shes back home. it sucks beacuse you know it would be different if you were close and could see eachother. I tried to make it work but if shes not coming back soon then its gonna be really hard. I decided to break it off before it could get worse and hurt more.
D-Lish Posted October 2, 2008 Posted October 2, 2008 yesterday i let her know how this has been making me feel and i think it pushed her away. i am so confused and i dont know if i should have expressed my feelings the way i did. what do i do from here?....and why is she treating me like this to begin with? trust me- telling her how you feel did not make things worse or push her away. If she was going to pull away, she was going to do it regardless. Your best bet is to retreat into your own hobbies and life... and not reach out to her anymore. You didn't push her away, she was already retreating.
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