Tower233 Posted September 30, 2008 Posted September 30, 2008 Why does one contact someone after breaking up? Keep in mind we were never really together but fell in love. She is married and is not prepared to leave him but keeps contacting me. It's been almost a year since I seen her but two weeks ago she called me and today there is a request to be her friend on facebook. I'll be honest I truly love her and she has expressed the same feelings. But she isn't going to leave her current situation so why contact me? Can someone tell me why she keeps contacting me? I know she wants to keep touch but why? Is is just in case she changes her mind? Is it that she doesn't know what she wants. I just confuses me. I feel like saying go away but I really to love her. I don't know.. Anyone have any thoughts???
0hpenelope Posted September 30, 2008 Posted September 30, 2008 Were you an OM? Did you both have an EA? She shouldn't be contacting you if romantic feelings are still present. Simply put, it's not right. It goes both ways, but if you don't put your foot down, you're going to be dragged down into a far worse hell. I suggest you read Stampdaddy's posts... and look at the Infidelity forums as well.. Don't be a doormat, bro. She's married. There's no way you're going to win in this unless she divorces the husband.
Bob54 Posted September 30, 2008 Posted September 30, 2008 Maybe she just honestly wants to keep you as a friend. Maybe she doesn't want to lose you from her life altogether? It's not really stringing youa long if you look at it that way. But I've been there (going thru it now) and I know it's tough. You just have to ask yourself if you'd rather keep her as a friend - or lose her forever by cutting contact.
Karma101 Posted September 30, 2008 Posted September 30, 2008 Maybe she's not happy in her marriage. Maybe she's looking for attention that her husband may not be giving her right now. Who knows. But what is definite is that she's married. Tell her to get a divorce and THEN give you a call!
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