xjohnsgirlx Posted September 30, 2008 Posted September 30, 2008 Hey guys, i just have a bit of issue and i need some advice help on it. I got out of a horrible relationship around 6 months ago and ive found it hard to see my self dating again. i was out with my friend on friday night doing the usual social drinking thing when a guy approached me. We ended up talking the whole night and exchanging number. I didnt expect to hear from him again but then next day he called and said we sound hang out.. so we did... that was 3 weeks ago and he stills asks me to come over and everything. The way he talks is like im his gf but he hasnt actually asked me out which confuses me as to whether his just acting nice or actually thinks im his gf. But thats not the big issue. My problem is i do like him alot but im scared. His sweet, caring, treats me right. And he has already mentioned lil things about 'in the future'. But he smokes .. weed.... yes thats okay with me, its a personal choice. Like it doesnt bother me that he has choosen to take that path, just if there was anything to be between me and him i would want him to stop. The problem being i cant see him stopping it. He does it alot and all his friends do it as well. And i dont know if i should try and mention that i dont like him doing it or just take the steps away while i can. Its just confusing as i havent felt like this about any one in ages i do care for him, but i know wanting a person to change for my benefit isnt going to end up all rainbow n butterflys, knowbody likes people wanting them to change... i dont know if ive made any sense i just need some advice please help
Yamaha Posted September 30, 2008 Posted September 30, 2008 YOu can't really change someone's behavior so if the weed is a big problem for you then I think you know it would never work out in a relationship. If you enjoy his company I would suggest you ask him to be a friend and leave it at that.
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