sacg Posted September 30, 2008 Posted September 30, 2008 Heres my full epilogue, she aint, is she? http://www.loveshack.org/forums/search.php?searchid=5409160
0hpenelope Posted September 30, 2008 Posted September 30, 2008 If you want to move on, bro... The best way to go about this is to believe that she will never come back. The present's showing you her absence. Chances are, the future will still have her stay absent.
HopeDiesLast Posted October 1, 2008 Posted October 1, 2008 Sacg, i was glad to read one of your other post about trying to make yourself go out and maybe you're starting to feel a bit better. I dont know if she's coming back, friend. i dont think she knows if she's coming back....but i think all any of us can do at this point is make like she's not, and move forward with our own lives. If she does want to come back, she will find you. and you can deal with her and how you're feeling when/if that happens.
Sysyphus28 Posted October 1, 2008 Posted October 1, 2008 No. She is never coming back. You are on a forum for coping not hoping.
Mike B. Posted October 1, 2008 Posted October 1, 2008 No. She is never coming back. You are on a forum for coping not hoping. And like Morgan Freeman said in Shawshank Redemption,"hope can drive a man crazy."
BuccMan Posted October 1, 2008 Posted October 1, 2008 And like Morgan Freeman said in Shawshank Redemption,"hope can drive a man crazy." Mike, I am new here and that hit the nail on the head. Here is my story, http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t165850/ Thanks for the insight.
ioncebelieved Posted October 2, 2008 Posted October 2, 2008 Not today she is not! But maybe one day she will. That is where you let go of hope and wait on destiny. If it is meant to be, it will be... I always hated hearing that! But meant to be is true and I now see it for what it is. Try it out while moving on and just maybe your ex may come back. I hope she does for you as I hope one day mine will. I just am not sitting around waiting on it anymore!
BCCA Posted October 2, 2008 Posted October 2, 2008 Someone told me this, and as much as it sucks, its damn true. Ex's almost always 'check back in' with you at some point, if nothing else than to see if the opportunity is still there. Thing is, they usuall do so as soon as you've turned the corner, and really dont want them back. You cant fake it or force it, but its almost as if they can feel it in the air when youre finally over them. Its been my experience that they come back around as soon as its truly too late. I wouldnt even bother worrying, there is nothing you can do to make things any different with her. Just get out there and meet new women. I was beating myself up worrying that I would never find anyone, but now I'm screening calls because I have so many girls wanting to hang out. It just takes time and the knowledge that youll be just fine without her.
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