oceangrl Posted September 30, 2008 Posted September 30, 2008 My brother sent me a video, its about power in relationships. People want to obtain more power through control. But the problem with this stratedgy isthat you can't control what other people do. As a result, control leads to frustration which leads to anger and then depression. Where is the balance between controlling a partner and not becoming a doormat. Here is the link to the video.
CaliGuy Posted September 30, 2008 Posted September 30, 2008 Right. The one who cares about the relationship the LEAST has the most power and control over it.... to a point. I think you can not care to a point where the other person leaves you.
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