brenda collins Posted September 29, 2008 Posted September 29, 2008 U may have seen my last post about bad boys... To cut it short i met this guy on saturday who is a new addition to my group of friends. he told my friends he liked me and asked me out this week to which i agreed. He was texting and face booking me all of yesterday, which I thought was a bit over keen considering nothing happened betwen us on sat... but did not think anything of it. Today at work (i told him on sat where i work) i went for lunch and when I came bk there was a rose waitiing for me. The girl i worked with told me this guy had come in, asked for me and when told I was at lunch said oh i bet shes at "Pauls" ( a sandwhich place) and so I will go find her... He then came bk and said he couldnt find me but would she give it to me and not say it was from him, but told her his name... Im a bit freaked out, firstly how did he seem to know where i was ( and i was there) and secondly bit of a coincidence he came when i popped out to get lunch. Thirdly is this just a little bit ott considering i havent even been on a date yet with him, i just met him... I got a message later on today saying that he hoped i did not think it was ott he just thought a pretty girl deserved a rose... what do u guys think... weirdo?? or nice guy??
DeePee Posted September 29, 2008 Posted September 29, 2008 He's a needy, clingy guy. You can give him a shot, but it's not stalker/odd... it's needy and clingy. On that note, he may not be a "bad boy" and be a nice change for you.
Author brenda collins Posted September 29, 2008 Author Posted September 29, 2008 but doesnt it kinda seem like he was watching me. how did he know i was at pauls there are a thousand restaurants where i work... and why so keen ??
manugeorge Posted September 29, 2008 Posted September 29, 2008 Maybe not quite a stalker but he seems over-eager, which is always a turn off
mixwell Posted September 29, 2008 Posted September 29, 2008 He is way to clingy, and needy and it will only get worse. I just got out of a 4 month relationship with a girl that was clingy.. Everything was okay and once we got together we spend 24/7 together and we always argued when I wanted space and time alone. Guarantee this guy is like that. I would be freaked out if I were you.. Its not nice guy its clingy, needy guy. Image what he would do if you broke up with him ? I would ditch this guy ASAP but if you don't you will see that his actions now will only get worse and you will not be happy with him.
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