SoCalove Posted September 29, 2008 Posted September 29, 2008 My ex and I broke up 4 months ago, we are both in our 30s, and just recently started seeing each other again as friends. I am friends with her friends and they all say she misses me and they all think we are good together. I have not initiated contact since the break but she contacts me via texts. I usually respond but never right away, sometimes a few hours later or even a day later. I am seeing someone new as she is seeing someone also, but her friends say she is not into him as she is to me as I am. We had a party this weekend with all our friends and as I was coming into the party she was leaving, she said she wasn't feeling well and wanted to go home to rest. Our friend text her and asked if she was coming back to the party, and she text back asking if I was still at the party. Our friend text back with a yes, no response back. I met someone at the party, a friend of a friend and we planned on going out this week. On Sunday she sent me a few texts. She said "I heard you had a fun time at the party. That's cool". I'm sure she heard about my "new friend" from the party, I didn't do it to get back at her, we are NOT together. She kept texting me for a good part of Sunday. I am fine with the no contact but I don't want to drive her away if I ignore the texts. I don't initiate calls and i rarely text her. She broke up with me. I do want her back but her friends tell me she just needs time and to give her space. Am I doing the right thing?
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