WiseOne1 Posted September 29, 2008 Posted September 29, 2008 Lol, im not sure if I am or not. But I started NC the day after My BDay, she she called and sung be happy birthday and that was sweet and all. So my bday was on the Sep 19th, I started NC on the 20th, guys Today!!!! Today is the first time I thought about her, its been a full week and so, and for somereason today I thought about her, but I dont miss her. So if you go a full week of nothing thinking about your ex " I mean not ONCE" are you over your ex. Its strange and unbelievable that you can be best friends with a ex for 5 years and date them for 1 year and not even think about them ONCE!! For a full week. Do you think this means that Im over her?
CaliGuy Posted September 29, 2008 Posted September 29, 2008 You'll know you are over her when you stop posting on LS about her. See what I mean? If you have to ask others if you are over her then the odds are you are not. When you could care less about posting topics about her, etc, then you'll be over her.
Author WiseOne1 Posted September 29, 2008 Author Posted September 29, 2008 You'll know you are over her when you stop posting on LS about her. See what I mean? If you have to ask others if you are over her then the odds are you are not. When you could care less about posting topics about her, etc, then you'll be over her. See thats the point I dont want to be over her. I've tried all the little common things as to what to think about, nd I try making myself think about her, but it doesnt work! Also, alot of people still post about there ex's and are over them. I've had this feeling before about a ex long ago, and I know what it means, It means that im about over her or getting over her at a rapid speed. I know most people would find this crazy, but I try to make myself love her again, and im not able to, its just like a dead car battery.
nowhereman82 Posted September 29, 2008 Posted September 29, 2008 You'll know you are over her when you stop posting on LS about her. See what I mean? If you have to ask others if you are over her then the odds are you are not. When you could care less about posting topics about her, etc, then you'll be over her. Beat me to it, that's what I was going to say. WiseOne.....if the relation did not end with you hating her....there will always be a place for her in your heart....so just because she does not consume your thoughts as much anymore, does not mean you love her any less. Think of it as a loved one dying.....over time you think of them less and less and eventually when you do think of them....it just feels like you haven't seen them in a long time.
Author WiseOne1 Posted September 29, 2008 Author Posted September 29, 2008 Beat me to it, that's what I was going to say. WiseOne.....if the relation did not end with you hating her....there will always be a place for her in your heart....so just because she does not consume your thoughts as much anymore, does not mean you love her any less. Think of it as a loved one dying.....over time you think of them less and less and eventually when you do think of them....it just feels like you haven't seen them in a long time. Lol for godsakes anyone can post about a ex, Caliguy still post about his ex or says something about her from years ago, and im sure hes way over her.
nopainnogain Posted September 29, 2008 Posted September 29, 2008 next one that post about there ex is a rotten egg so how bout them dodgers.?
CaliGuy Posted September 29, 2008 Posted September 29, 2008 Lol for godsakes anyone can post about a ex, Caliguy still post about his ex or says something about her from years ago, and im sure hes way over her. Only in the context of history and comparision to things people are going through now.
BackonTrack Posted September 29, 2008 Posted September 29, 2008 Beat me to it, that's what I was going to say. WiseOne.....if the relation did not end with you hating her....there will always be a place for her in your heart....so just because she does not consume your thoughts as much anymore, does not mean you love her any less. Think of it as a loved one dying.....over time you think of them less and less and eventually when you do think of them....it just feels like you haven't seen them in a long time. I am at this point. Just feels like I haven't seen her in a long time. I did not allow myself to hate her though. Life is to short to hate people. I don't know whats up with her though, she cheated, technically I broke up with her but I think thats what she wanted. I tried to get her back and she told me to **** off then I cuss the **** out of her and she told me stop harassing her then I sent her a drunken text like 6 months later stating I was forgetting her and for her to do something. Anyway, I didn't want to get over my ex either but after 5 months, my brain started to physically hurt from thinking about her. My body actually forced me to stop.
Author WiseOne1 Posted September 29, 2008 Author Posted September 29, 2008 I am at this point. Just feels like I haven't seen her in a long time. I did not allow myself to hate her though. Life is to short to hate people. I don't know whats up with her though, she cheated, technically I broke up with her but I think thats what she wanted. I tried to get her back and she told me to **** off then I cuss the **** out of her and she told me stop harassing her then I sent her a drunken text like 6 months later stating I was forgetting her and for her to do something. Anyway, I didn't want to get over my ex either but after 5 months, my brain started to physically hurt from thinking about her. My body actually forced me to stop. Yea thats how I feel. I've been thru this with a past ex,and this feels exactly like I did back then. And currently i've been trying to make myself miss my ex, or make myself love her again and I Cant. Maybe im lonely, and now im missing a part, 98% of my life i've never been single, everysince I was 6 years old I've never went 2 months without a girlfriends. So I guess thats my signal that Im ready to start dating again. Its just that I hate being so good at everything and always winning. Im Mr.Orlando, Mr. Atlanta, Mr. San Antonio, even Mr. San Diego. Its just that im always succesful and never lose, rather its romantically, or finicially, or which ever. This is my first time every being totally single, like I said I really havent been single since I was 6 years old.
BackonTrack Posted September 29, 2008 Posted September 29, 2008 lol, hey dude u should find a hobby, its that u have to much times on your hand and your reflecting on other things.. life is not about relationship, life is about being happy and making yourself happy. if your happy, people will naturually graviated toward you. if you were out living life, not pinning over the ex (i know your not) but out & about, trust me, none of these concerns will even enter your brain.... if you keep your body & soul fulfilled, you won't think your missing something.. me personally, you already know how messed up I was, hell when I think about my ex, I don't even get angry or anything, I'm just like "Ok wow, she was a young whore who liked sucking cock and getting ****ed by many men" oh well.... sorry i'm rambling, I guess what I'm trying to say is that every man has their "DROUGHT" in life... maybe this is your time.. who knows.... just rebuild yourself and work on yourself.
nopainnogain Posted September 30, 2008 Posted September 30, 2008 me personally, you already know how messed up I was, hell when I think about my ex, I don't even get angry or anything, I'm just like "Ok wow, she was a young whore who liked sucking cock and getting ****ed by many men" oh well.... . lol. I have the same sentiments.
Author WiseOne1 Posted September 30, 2008 Author Posted September 30, 2008 lol, hey dude u should find a hobby, its that u have to much times on your hand and your reflecting on other things.. life is not about relationship, life is about being happy and making yourself happy. if your happy, people will naturually graviated toward you. if you were out living life, not pinning over the ex (i know your not) but out & about, trust me, none of these concerns will even enter your brain.... if you keep your body & soul fulfilled, you won't think your missing something.. me personally, you already know how messed up I was, hell when I think about my ex, I don't even get angry or anything, I'm just like "Ok wow, she was a young whore who liked sucking cock and getting ****ed by many men" oh well.... sorry i'm rambling, I guess what I'm trying to say is that every man has their "DROUGHT" in life... maybe this is your time.. who knows.... just rebuild yourself and work on yourself. I have nothing to rebuild, Im rebuilt. And life isnt about relationships , its about enjoying life. And everyman has a Drought and I had that drought along time ago, its like chingy say, "people talking about its drought, man it aint no drought, I bring them hoes in and bring them hoes" Lol And its not that I try to get into relationships, its just that Im soo good looking, that I attract alot of women, Im surprised I can stay in a committed relationship. But I guess your right, the whole lesson of this is I need to be able to stay single and not feel empty.
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