ImAScorpio Posted September 29, 2008 Posted September 29, 2008 I'm going to try and keep this short. I'm not sure if the actual details really matter but here is the general summary: Took a girl I didn't know (had met before but didn't really know) to a themed party last night. We end up not dancing at all but drinking a lot (neither of us were really that drunk though, she was actually pretty sober throughout - I was buzzed but later pretended to act more drunk that I was so that I could continue making out with her b/c I felt that if I was sober she would feel really skanky if she made out with me) and cuddling/making out (not hardcore making out but a lot of intermittent kissing with some tongue action though, me kissing her on the neck/cheeks/forehead, etc.), hand holding, etc.. I can tell she starts to feel a bit uncomfortable later, especially when she talks about people judging others, etc. I asker her why and she said its because "I'm a girl." She talked about this whole judging thing (specifically judging girls) a few times throughout the night and I picked up the hint the first time she said it. Talked to her this morning and she seemed OK but when I asked if she had fun she said "it was chill" and when I ended the conversation by saying that we should hang out more in the future she didn't say anything. Also, a huge mistake on my part : I told her that the guy who set me up with her told me that she can get kind of crazy which I realized MUCH LATER that she took that to mean that the reason I took her to the party was I thought she would be "easy" to lay/sleep with or whatever aka a big slut. Huge mistake on my part. She was mostly sober throughout but when she did get buzzed she called me a "cutie", seemed to enjoy all the physical escalation and everything seemed fine then. However when she started sobering up she had a cigerette and her mood started to change. I didn't blatantly tell her or even mention for her to come over to my place or vice versa but I think it was pretty apparent that we were both thinking it but she kept telling me she was just going to go home. We ended up walking close to my place before we kissed and she left. So what do I do now?
superd Posted September 29, 2008 Posted September 29, 2008 the word "cutie" a "death sentence". Anyway, she smokes, yuck!!!
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