Green Posted September 29, 2008 Posted September 29, 2008 Its the weekend your Down Town, and now your going to touch a girl you don't know. A hot girl, maybe shes on the dance floor and your just going to walk up and start dancing on her. You put your hands on her waist and you can feel the kind of panties shes wearing... maybe one of those hot string thongs. You didn't know them but now your touching them Oh Yeah! ... When you touch them they might get mad or it might be the thing that get you there number or what ever... Go out there and touch some one... you don't know
Isolde Posted September 29, 2008 Posted September 29, 2008 Girl's perspective: This kinda thing is tricky. When you're drunk, touching cute people you don't know is fun. But when I'm not drunk anymore it makes me sad to think that's someone I could have actually gone on a date with and gotten to know properly. (I don't dance with guys I don't find first-date material) That's why I decided to stop dancing at clubs (i still go, I just don't want to dance). BTW, your plan to get me in a relationship by the end of the weekend failed. Miserably. I stayed in all of today actually. Too busy.
Star Gazer Posted September 29, 2008 Posted September 29, 2008 That kind of touching would get you slapped if I was the girl on the dancefloor.
Author Green Posted September 29, 2008 Author Posted September 29, 2008 Yes well I actualy got the number of alot of the girls I danced with this weekend and one might actualy turn into a relationship. I went on a date today with a girl who was my waitress at the diner I went to after dancing and saw kung fu panda (great movie) buttt I kinda don't like her she was cold in my opinion
Author Green Posted September 29, 2008 Author Posted September 29, 2008 That kind of touching would get you slapped if I was the girl on the dancefloor. I don't doubt it but I also don't doubt you'd love me long time
Star Gazer Posted September 29, 2008 Posted September 29, 2008 I don't doubt it but I also don't doubt you'd love me long time You should.
Author Green Posted September 29, 2008 Author Posted September 29, 2008 I'm really tall and goofy looking but women find me
shadowplay Posted September 29, 2008 Posted September 29, 2008 I'm really tall and goofy looking but women find me picture......?
Yamaha Posted September 29, 2008 Posted September 29, 2008 maybe one of those hot string thongs. You didn't know them but now your touching them Oh Yeah! Nah. The boy shorts do it for me. Some women would find this sexy and daring and see you as a guy who knows what he wants and is willing to accept rejection. Very appealing to some women but I, myself would not be into a gal who does ONS.
Author Green Posted September 29, 2008 Author Posted September 29, 2008 Nah. The boy shorts do it for me. Some women would find this sexy and daring and see you as a guy who knows what he wants and is willing to accept rejection. Very appealing to some women but I, myself would not be into a gal who does ONS. was is that a mentle slip I never mentioned ONS. And Isolde your not going to meet any guys if you stay home all weekend
Isolde Posted September 29, 2008 Posted September 29, 2008 Didn't you see my new avatar? My favorite place is the couch
RecordProducer Posted September 29, 2008 Posted September 29, 2008 Touching on the dancefloor, as long as it doesn't cross limits of decency, is totally OK. I see dancing as art and in art, touching is acceptable. It's kinda like me singing "You're the one that I want" and smiling at you. It's just acting. Dancing does include mutual touching. It's really annoying that some men take it as a green light (not saying you, KMT) which then puts a woman in a position to skip dancing just to avoid sending the wrong message. I went out this Friday and did the dirty dancing with two guys. One of them jokingly slapped my butt while going back to the dancefloor. I told him"Look, wehn we dance, it's art, but when we don't, keep your hands off, I am not a slut." He started teasing me about it then. I felt good about putting boundaries and then we continued with the dirty dancing. But now he knew it was just art - which is what I wanted. I think a woman should instruct men on how to treat her. In such way she shows self-respect and can keep flirting, dirty-dancing, and getting drunk. Of course, it took me years to develop enough confidence to do that in a way that doesn't lead to me apologizing to the guy for telling him not to touch me.
Isolde Posted September 29, 2008 Posted September 29, 2008 Hmm, dancing isn't necessarily acting, though. It could also be starting to get to know someone, couldn't it? Of course, people don't usually date people they meet at clubs. This, again, is why I don't want to do this anymore.
Author Green Posted September 29, 2008 Author Posted September 29, 2008 theres definetly a thing about the dance floor that makes it ok to touch. But I'll touch even if its not the dancefloor. And I hope your wrong Isolde cause I would like to date some of these people I met. The thing is getting the number is just level one... level two is the first date
RecordProducer Posted September 29, 2008 Posted September 29, 2008 Hmm, dancing isn't necessarily acting. I said dancing is art, not necessarily acting. Singing includes acting. The thing is I love dirty dancing because it's fun and I've done it with people I don't find attractive. I can dance with anyone who feels the music and is relaxed/confident enough to move their body. Actually, the more "aggressive" I am (as in self-confident, liberal, brave), the more shy men get around me. It's the little signals that they find most encouraging and challenging.
Bells Posted September 29, 2008 Posted September 29, 2008 That kind of touching would get you slapped if I was the girl on the dancefloor. Hey, that's the risk that one takes. <shrug> It's all about taking a risk I guess.
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