nick212 Posted September 28, 2008 Posted September 28, 2008 My ex as of a few days ago (dated for a year) , we broke up , and I do good without talking to her , and then she sends me messages saying "She loves me, and wants us to work" . She's been doing this for 2 days now. Whats the reasoning?
superd Posted September 28, 2008 Posted September 28, 2008 ..at least you are okay when you are apart... that much is good (i.e. healthy).
Geishawhelk Posted September 28, 2008 Posted September 28, 2008 My ex as of a few days ago (dated for a year) , we broke up , and I do good without talking to her , and then she sends me messages saying "She loves me, and wants us to work" . She's been doing this for 2 days now. Whats the reasoning? She wants to try again. Who initiated the break up?
Author nick212 Posted September 29, 2008 Author Posted September 29, 2008 She intiates the contact. She's like " I wish you were holding me , I love you, and want to be with you, I miss you soo much" And then she will start her games again. She use to cut herself, shes adopted also,so I know she's not all there but IDK.
Mike B. Posted September 29, 2008 Posted September 29, 2008 She intiates the contact. She's like " I wish you were holding me , I love you, and want to be with you, I miss you soo much" And then she will start her games again. She use to cut herself, shes adopted also,so I know she's not all there but IDK. Used to cut herself? Start games? Ignore her contact and continue to walk and don't look back until you have been away from this relationship for a long time. If you stick around, you will eventually be screwed big time. Consider yourself to have been warned!
D-Lish Posted September 29, 2008 Posted September 29, 2008 My ex as of a few days ago (dated for a year) , we broke up , and I do good without talking to her , and then she sends me messages saying "She loves me, and wants us to work" . She's been doing this for 2 days now. Whats the reasoning? The games aren't going to stop- whether you get back together with her or just allow her to have sporadic contact with you. You mentioned you've been doing good without the contact- so keep up the good work and ignore the texts. We teach people how to treat us, and if she plays these games, and you fall for them- she will never learn it's not okay to playthese games with people.
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