brenda collins Posted September 28, 2008 Posted September 28, 2008 . I am 22. I have been single for nearly a year now and although I have had a few flings have found nothing long term. My problem is I love bad boys and keep getting involved with them. Recentyl I have been involved with one very rich, lawyer who is a true gentleman. I have only been on a few dates with him so it is nothing serious. Last night whilst out with some friends, a new guy who I had not met before came out with us... hE TOLD ONE OF MY FRIENDS HE REALLY liked me and asked me out on a date this week. We ended up going bk to my friends for more drinks and all ended up in the same bed staying there, including this guy... He was such a gentleman and looked after me, dropped me home this morning and did not try anything and has been texting me all day. perfect huh! Apart from the fact that I think he may be a bit of a bad boy... Firstly I know he does a lot of drugs, secondly he has recently taken some time out of one of the best uni in the world. Thirdly, he comes from a v wealthy background but his parents found drugs in his room and have confiscated all his money etc... I am really attracted to this guy, but have had my fair share of bad boys... But does the fact that he does drugs mean he is a **** to women Should I go for it or stay away... How can i tell if he is yet another bad boy???? xxxxxx
Author brenda collins Posted September 28, 2008 Author Posted September 28, 2008 but just because he does drugs do u think that means he is a **** to women?? I wouldnt say he is a drug addict, he just does drugs sometimes on nights out... a lot of my friends do AS WELL...i JUS DONT KNOW WHAT TO THINK...
DeePee Posted September 28, 2008 Posted September 28, 2008 Drugs = bad over the long term. Unless he can clean or plans to (seriously plans to) get clean it's a bad idea. Sure, your friend and he may only do it occasionally, but just think of what would happen if addiction hit hard, or the law got involved, or a job required a blood/urine test, etc. Money/wealth means nothing in terms of treating a woman right. Being responsible over the long run does. A lot of wealthy people end up being poor. A lot of poor people end up being wealthy. A lot of people fall in between. Everyone who's responsible over the course of time doesn't fall into any specific type of wealth category.
superd Posted September 28, 2008 Posted September 28, 2008 ..if you fall for the "bad boy" type, maybe your somewhat of a "bad girl" type. Just an idea . Sometimes you have to accept yourself and others for who they are.
IrishCarBomb Posted September 28, 2008 Posted September 28, 2008 He's a drug addict. LOL Best. Response. Ever.
Green Posted September 29, 2008 Posted September 29, 2008 If I were to create a man capable of getting any woman I would give him a healthy drug habit, inflated ego, and his hobby would be kicking ass.
kashmir Posted September 29, 2008 Posted September 29, 2008 Firstly I know he does a lot of drugs, secondly he has recently taken some time out of one of the best uni in the world. Thirdly, he comes from a v wealthy background but his parents found drugs in his room and have confiscated all his money etc He sounds like a rich spoiled boy who blows his parents' money on drugs and other useless things. And you're attracted to him? Disgusting.
Yamaha Posted September 29, 2008 Posted September 29, 2008 If I were to create a man capable of getting any woman I would give him a healthy drug habit, inflated ego, and his hobby would be kicking ass. Perfect. The ideal bad boy......
Green Posted September 29, 2008 Posted September 29, 2008 Perfect. The ideal bad boy...... I'm the ideal creep closly related to the bad boy... we still get our fair share of women
carhill Posted September 29, 2008 Posted September 29, 2008 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t148502/ Note the thread title Over and out
Author brenda collins Posted September 29, 2008 Author Posted September 29, 2008 Update on the situation: U may have seen my last post about bad boys... To cut it short i met this guy on saturday who is a new addition to my group of friends. he told my friends he liked me and asked me out this week to which i agreed. He was texting and face booking me all of yesterday, which I thought was a bit over keen considering nothing happened betwen us on sat... but did not think anything of it. Today at work (i told him on sat where i work) i went for lunch and when I came bk there was a rose waitiing for me. The girl i worked with told me this guy had come in, asked for me and when told I was at lunch said oh i bet shes at "Pauls" ( a sandwhich place) and so I will go find her... He then came bk and said he couldnt find me but would she give it to me and not say it was from him, but told her his name... Im a bit freaked out, firstly how did he seem to know where i was ( and i was there) and secondly bit of a coincidence he came when i popped out to get lunch. Thirdly is this just a little bit ott considering i havent even been on a date yet with him, i just met him... I got a message later on today saying that he hoped i did not think it was ott he just thought a pretty girl deserved a rose... what do u guys think... weirdo?? or nice guy??
Yamaha Posted September 29, 2008 Posted September 29, 2008 Sounds like a needy weirdo. He knows where you work and eat so it might be hard to get rid of him. You might have to be forceful if he doesn't take no for an answer.
monkey00 Posted September 30, 2008 Posted September 30, 2008 from bad boy to nice guy overnight... Now what I need is a stash of drugs or fake drugs to show a girl and become the ultimate bad boy...yup that works.
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