Sw3etdev1L Posted September 28, 2008 Posted September 28, 2008 I am 23, he was 25. We went out for about a month just five times right? we kissed on the fourth date. Went to a wedding together during the fifth. Then he didn't call me about a week so I decided to call him to know if we were still gonna go out together. And stuff. So I called, he said he was busy and that he'd call me later. Then, he did (I was surprised, I thought he was not going to call me). I asked him if we were still gonna go out and he said, he was very sorry and that he knew how hard a rejection was but that he thought we were not made to be together even if he was feeling a chemistry and that he liked me. He said he was going to call me so that we went out so that he could explain himself. He said he would like to have a free relationship with me or to be friends and see what else in the future. But that he did not want committments right now. I just thought it was hilarious and unreasonable to want to get a girl out to reject her.. I told him that if he didn't want to go out with me it was ok, that I understood and that I didn't need to go out in a date to get rejected if there was no committments involved..Of course no committments after a fifth date, come on!! Now explain to me, why?? I think this was stupid hehe
lonelyandfrustrated Posted September 28, 2008 Posted September 28, 2008 hahaha...I was casually seeing a guy many years ago (we were not exclusive) who took me to THREE weddings (of his friends). Then a friend of mine was getting married so I called him up and asked him to go with me and he said he would but then he stood me up! I asked him WHY? He said that going to a wedding with me was 'more serious' than he wanted to get, lol!!! Right...silly man. Weddings freak guys out. Yes, stupidity plays a part.
superd Posted September 28, 2008 Posted September 28, 2008 People are getting waiting to get serious a little bit later these days, it is a new world, you are going to have to deal with it.
Mary3 Posted October 1, 2008 Posted October 1, 2008 I am 23, he was 25. We went out for about a month just five times right? we kissed on the fourth date. Went to a wedding together during the fifth. Then he didn't call me about a week so I decided to call him to know if we were still gonna go out together. And stuff. So I called, he said he was busy and that he'd call me later. Then, he did (I was surprised, I thought he was not going to call me). I asked him if we were still gonna go out and he said, he was very sorry and that he knew how hard a rejection was but that he thought we were not made to be together even if he was feeling a chemistry and that he liked me. He said he was going to call me so that we went out so that he could explain himself. He said he would like to have a free relationship with me or to be friends and see what else in the future. But that he did not want committments right now. I just thought it was hilarious and unreasonable to want to get a girl out to reject her.. I told him that if he didn't want to go out with me it was ok, that I understood and that I didn't need to go out in a date to get rejected if there was no committments involved..Of course no committments after a fifth date, come on!! Now explain to me, why?? I think this was stupid hehe Its pretty simple. He enjoyed ( back then ) being around you. When the kiss came and maybe some hugging and other things, he just wasnt feeling the chemical romance part. He backed away. He does not see you as a girlfriend material. He was being polite offering to take you out to explain.
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