unknown815 Posted September 27, 2008 Posted September 27, 2008 the pain is becoming unbearable. I don't want to wake up anymore. Its been almost 2 months since the father of my child told me he needed some time for himself and wasn't ready for the commitment of a relationship. I am in love with my baby girl and feel so bad that i have to be so sad like this. He is seeing someone else which i found out only 2 weeks after the split. I have posted my entire long complicated story on here before but not much responses. I want him back. Ive tried acting civil, ive tried being angry, i have tried expressing myself. i am all out. I hate that hems with someone else. is this a rebound? will he be back? this is all i think about. I hate my life right now!
Idroo Posted September 27, 2008 Posted September 27, 2008 my wife and i have been together for 11 years and about 2 months ago she asked me to leave. she does not know how she feels about me. i see my children when i can but my wife avoids me like i was contagious, usually. she says to me that she needs some space to find herself and i feel like we have never been further apart, were on opposite sides of the grand canyon in my mind. i dont think she is seeing anyone else but i am across town now and have no real idea what is going on. i feel your pain, at least you know he is seeing another- i dont. everyday i just go thru the motions i get to work usually 1-2 hours early and linger as late as possible, usually until my boss actually kicks me out of the place. i wander the city alone thinking about how much i hurt and how little she seems to hurt and that makes it hurt even more. i dont sleep much or eat a whole lot, smoking almost 3 packs a day. i wish i could help you but i cannot help myself right now, i will pray for all of us who are experiencing the pain of unrequited love. good luck and god bless
Konfuzion Posted September 27, 2008 Posted September 27, 2008 I wouldn't get attached to the idea of him coming back (I know you don't want to hear that but sorry) Sounds like its time to go no contact with him except to talk about him seeing the child, and when you do talk only talk about the child and not your feelings and keep it short and sweet. When you are on the phone sound happy and busy... Like ok sounds good, I have to go now I am running a little late. Start going out and dating and just have a good time.
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