You'reasian Posted September 28, 2008 Posted September 28, 2008 well guys my hunny wants a break to figure everything out. the details are here http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t165404/ she says she want a break of one month to figure everything out but she says that she does want to be with me. i need your help guys i havent slept since we broke up 2 nights ago. i cant sleep i cant eat.....im just in so much pain. i need to know what to do and how to handle this situation. feel free to post here and in my other thread above.ADVICE VERY MUCH NEEDED !!!!!!!!!!!!!! thanks every1 I JUST WANT MY M.Y.B. thats her initials. i just need her Enjoy that month off. Treat yourself well, bro - make yourself ready so you can find someone who will want to be with you.
Author islandboy786 Posted September 28, 2008 Author Posted September 28, 2008 I agree with Lucrezia. Asking for a break means it's over!! Why do you need a break from someone you love? Doesn't make sense!! that exactly what i told her. BUT THERE IS GOING TO BE NO BREAK, I GUESS WE JUST GOT INTO A FIGHT AND MADE UP AND WE ARE GOING TO WORK THINGS OUT WHEN I GO SEE HER IN OCTOBER FACE TO FACE.
Author islandboy786 Posted September 28, 2008 Author Posted September 28, 2008 oh yeah im not yelling when im typing im just happy..........i know its bad on forums to type in all caps
ninjaturtles Posted September 28, 2008 Posted September 28, 2008 My Ex asked for a break. It led to a break up. My advice for you, speaking from past experiences. If she wants a break, please try as much as possible to avoid contacting her. Wait for her to contact you. It's hard...but avoid pushing her away by your actions. It is hard...but sometimes it's best to simply do nothing. Furthermore, as mentioned above, prepare your mind for the worst. Let go..take it as though you have broken up. It;s always better to expect nothing... Keep posting on here and hugs.xxxx
Author islandboy786 Posted September 29, 2008 Author Posted September 29, 2008 i will be sure to keep you guys updated on the relationship by either bumping this thread or the one in the dating forums................you guys feel free to add whatever u want in this or my other thread the advice im getting is making things much easier for me to make my ultimate decison. also should i not go to see her in october like i planned ?
Author islandboy786 Posted September 29, 2008 Author Posted September 29, 2008 do you guys think i should fly out and see her soon so things could work out ?
Author islandboy786 Posted October 1, 2008 Author Posted October 1, 2008 bump i kinda need an answer soon about the ticket to see her because i was planning on buying it by the end of this week
Geishawhelk Posted October 2, 2008 Posted October 2, 2008 No. I think you should stay put and work on getting over her. THe only time you should go see her, is if she begs you to. Otherwise, I think you're wasting money.
Author islandboy786 Posted October 13, 2008 Author Posted October 13, 2008 so i bought the ticket to go see her. but now im not even feeling like going to go see her. its like she is so cold and seems as if she has a wall up. we hardly talk anymore, shes not all lovey dubby, all quiet on the phone. things arent going good so i told her stuff needs to change. and i told her if stuff doesnt change before i have to go on the plane that i just wont go at all to see her. let her waste her time and go to the airport expecting to see me and i not be there, and her not be able to go back to work for that week and everything would be over from there. i feel like a bad person for even thinking thoughts like that. that honestly isnt me but im so emotionally drained and exhausted i dont know what to do. i honestly want to go and see her to try and make everything better in person, maybe thats what we need. but then again i dont want to go . the other night we were talking on the phone and all of a sudden it hangs up so i call her back like 3 mins later because i didnt realize i was half asleep. so i call her back and it rings 2 times and then voicemail. i call back again then straight to voicemail. so i text her. usually when one of us falls asleep on the other we call eachother to wake them up and let them go to sleep. so im thinking she was with another guy.............not sure why i think that but its what i think. HELP GUYS/GALS PLEASE im really in need of some advice this is really hard on me
LucreziaBorgia Posted October 13, 2008 Posted October 13, 2008 Is your ticket refundable? Try to get your money back, and then back way, way, way off from her before she gets so cold that she forcibly shoves you away instead of just giving you the cold shoulder. Look back at my post earlier in this thread.
Author islandboy786 Posted October 13, 2008 Author Posted October 13, 2008 Is your ticket refundable? Try to get your money back, and then back way, way, way off from her before she gets so cold that she forcibly shoves you away instead of just giving you the cold shoulder. Look back at my post earlier in this thread. no the ticket isnt refundable so what should i do ?
Geishawhelk Posted October 14, 2008 Posted October 14, 2008 I have serious misgivings about your common sense, bbecause I don't know how many people have tried giving you advice, but you seem completely impervious to it, and unable to think for yourself. So, I'm going to see if spelling it out will do it. I-T-'S O-V-E-R. DO NOT GO TO SEE HER. DO NOT MAKE CONTACT. MOVE ON. You are both miserable, and you don't feel like going to see her. And Lucreziaborgia and I have both given you the same advice. So there you have it, pretty much in a nutshell, honeybun. What is it you're not getting....?
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