Deegee Posted September 26, 2008 Posted September 26, 2008 I've been sitting here thinking about my ex-bf (it's now been 6 weeks since our breakup ), and thinking of all of the emotions and feelings that I've gone through, and I realize that it's beginning to almost feel familiar, and a bit like a security blanket, sort of.! Has anyone else felt this? I feel like I'm stuck in this place of sadness, yet as much as I want to move on, and forward, I keep going back to this same place. Is this normal? And when did this happen?! WTF?!
HopeDiesLast Posted September 26, 2008 Posted September 26, 2008 I was saying it in another thread...its like that line from Swingers- you almost miss the pain for the same reason you miss them....because you lived with it for so long. Its all some of us have left to feel connected i guess. Im with you, Deegee.
Mike B. Posted September 26, 2008 Posted September 26, 2008 I was saying it in another thread...its like that line from Swingers- you almost miss the pain for the same reason you miss them....because you lived with it for so long. Its all some of us have left to feel connected i guess. Im with you, Deegee. I was about to say the same thing. Swingers is one of my favorite flicks of all time. I have it in my collection. I never knew what Trent meant in the film because I have never been in love at the time. When I fell in love and eventually got heartbroken, it took a while for me to recovery from that horrible heartache and sadness. I couldn't believe how much I actually missed those feeling when they were gone. It felt like I had lost a big part of me. Love is a strange and mysterious thing to say the least.
1bee Posted September 27, 2008 Posted September 27, 2008 thanks for posting this. i ask myself the same thing sometimes. come november, it will be a year since my break up. now, i don't want or need him anymore. nor do i miss him since the thought of him makes me sick, however i'm still deeply bothered by how it ended. he screwed me over big time. i was really naive. i put lots of time and effort and love into the relationship and supported him when he was going through college. and what i got in return was nothing. once he became successful and landed a big job, he left. i focused so much of myself on him and i never even cared about me. sometimes i'll have a nightmare about it. i just worry that i'm not making progress.
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