Green Posted September 26, 2008 Posted September 26, 2008 I'm not even sure what a PUA really is anymore but basicly its people who write books and stuff about how to do well with women. Now I've been anoyed by people who come on here posting and take this stuff to seriously. First off you don't need a book or books to figure this stuff out its easy enough to lay out in a small essay. These guys make ridicuolous what methods so they can sell theyre book. First off the number one way to get women is confidence in yourself. Confidence means your not worried about making a fool out of yourself and you don't shy away from the things you want in life which includes women for alot of guys. Obviously its not that easy and alot of pua stuff is about tricks to build your confidence with women like saying "hi" to every girl that passes you by. Ok some what usefull... but it gets a little crazy when it goes into all the what is a Alpha male crap. I have friends who do this stuff and really I'm way better with women then them. Now maybe they do this stuff cause they suck with women and they'd be even worse if they didn't... but that arguement fails because in the end it can only help you so much and then it ruins the interaction makes it feel scripted or like some game. I mean its kind of funny to think of dating as a game but to seriously think of it as some game with game like rules and that your gaming chicks is stupid and inefective. Personaly I couldn't care less what some girl thinks of me and I enjoy just being who I am and doing what I want to do. The only part of PUA stuff that I think is cool is the hypnotism stuff and the trances because that stuff really works buth other then that just have fun, if your funny make jokes, and don't be afraid to go for what you want and if that means trying to get a girl in bed then I say be agressive about it and don't be ashamed or think you have to use some magical technique. If you read the PUA stuff read it for entertainment not as some bible that needs to be followed and get the stuff for free don't pay for it... bit torrent or what ever or just browse through it when your at the book store or take it out from the library... Oh and I've never been to what they call a boot camp but for the love of god spend your money on something else or give me the 500-1000+ dollars and we'll hang out and get lots of chicks spending that kind of money, do you know what kind of party you can have with money the best
Yamaha Posted September 26, 2008 Posted September 26, 2008 I agree that these books make women seem like the most intelligent species on the planet and men are just silly boys with no clue on talking or interacting with women. Really, if you take all their BS to heart you would conclude that you will never get a women unless you follow their advice to the letter. Just be yourself and their will be a women who likes you.
The Player Posted September 26, 2008 Posted September 26, 2008 Sorry in my first post, I don't know what happened. But here's what I wanted to say: I agree with only 1 thing you said in this post. And that's confidence, confidence is mostly all you need in pickin up women. I understand what you mean when you say, why game women with a script? That is true, but there is 1 project out there, that is not in any wat whatsoever, telling you to follow these words/actions word by word. No, because that won't work, if a PUA says something to a girl and he picks her up. And a guy with no self esteem, no confidence says the exact same thing. He will NOT get her. You see it's now what you say to women, it's how you say it. I've personally never spent money on a camp or seduction book, the project I am apart of is way ahead of any PUA's you hear today, Myster, David Deangelo, Juggly, etc, etc, Out goal, is to help AFC's <---Average Frustrated Chumps We do not tell them " Say this line " " Then do this " We want to them to still be themselves, but just learn and add the things to your life to help you become better with women. We don't want you to change who you are, but create a * better * version of themselves. That is our goal at the paragon project. Some guys need help, and there's nothing wrong with that.
The Player Posted September 26, 2008 Posted September 26, 2008 Just be yourself and their will be a women who likes you. If a guy has no confidence in himself, looks down on the floor when he walks. Talks to zero women, is a quiet " kept to himself " guy. Is insecure of himself. Doesn't approach women at all. Doesn't know what is a good style for him to look good in... Then you have a very small chance, at being yourself and a girl liking you when you have all those bad characteristics with yourself.
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