nowhereman82 Posted September 26, 2008 Posted September 26, 2008 It's been a while since I have posted here. I bee trying to stay busy and ****en everything that moves. And now I just feel lonely. The only time I ever think of the ex now is when I feel there is a void in my life. I don't miss her or her love...just having that person there to share in, to sleep next to. ****en sucks! I'm not ready for a LTR so...I have to suck it up. I've been pretty good about hiding it from myself. Just seems the last couple of days it has creeped out. Tonight is Thursday...which was premier night for Greys Anatomy....our show....I can't even sit and watch it....I haven't even tried. I don't even want to see how I will react...and regardless I will just end up thinken about her. MY SHOW IS RUINED! lol anyone mostly a vent/rant....but a good place for others to share their lonelyness.
lofi_tokyo Posted September 26, 2008 Posted September 26, 2008 i hear ya on the tv show thing. we watched so many shows religiously together... and right now watching them just isnt as fun as it used to be, because it reminds me of him. the worst part is, i seriously doubt he thinks this way when he watches them... so its kinda like... one sided "our show" emotions. lol still, theyre good shows, so im sure ill get over it ;p
CaliGuy Posted September 26, 2008 Posted September 26, 2008 Meh. Better to be single and lonely than married and miserable....
JooLee Posted September 26, 2008 Posted September 26, 2008 \ I don't miss her or her love...just having that person there to share in, to sleep next to. ****en sucks! i feel you on this one. was just telling that to a friend the other day. but hey- we can doo it and when loneliness creeps upon we'll turn our back against it and show it that we're not afraid of it anymore! we've gone this far.. so dont stop moving! i think what u need is excitement.. not women... but something else that you're passionate about. try that
movingonandon Posted September 26, 2008 Posted September 26, 2008 Well I hope that this is not true... Though truth be told, I am wondering lately if i really miss my ex as a person, or just the feeling of having somebody cute and loving around me. Hard to tell. As with most things in life, it's probably both, because if it was just loneliness, why would you miss loving somebody? At least in theory, you can find somebody that you don't care about but they adore you, but that probably won't be too appealing, or maybe not.
EmperorR Posted September 26, 2008 Posted September 26, 2008 ya thats one of the main things i miss, is my best friend, is just cuddling, watching tv movies together, talking about whatever. I mean I knew everything about her, and now like even if I ever get the courage or feel attractive to another girl it won't be the same, from knowing everything about soemone to hvaing to start that process again . And I know how you feel, I still can't listen to romantic songs, or watch certain shows and certain movies then I remember and it sucks.
Author nowhereman82 Posted September 26, 2008 Author Posted September 26, 2008 Biggest thing to remember is that before you met your ex....you didn't know them that well either and you didn't need them in your life. Just work towards changing your head to where you don't need them. It's not easy...and honestly I think I have been ignoring the issue to feel better....but a lot of people here say 'fake it to make it'. And to an extent it has worked. I just need to keep it up. Biggest thing I can do for myself is to not get involved in a relationship. I was joking with my friend that I will let my dick do all the work for me. Let it do all the thinking for once so I don't end up in a relationship but can still have fun with woman lol They got a pretty good laugh from it >.<
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