Oh g*d I did somethng stupid!

[gummybear]

I have no idea what gotten into me. I was NC with my ex for nearly 4 weeks then just now I did something stupid and sent him a msg on facebook saying that since its been over a month (since the split) whether its ok to keep in touch (as friends) now. I thought I was over those urges to contact him but one moment of weakness and now this. Ugh!

[nowhereman82]

It happens...pick yourself up and continue as you were.

[gummybear]

I know but right now I'm so scared that either 1) he won't reply or 2) he will reply with a mean response calling me disrespectful for contacting him when I said I wouldnt. I feel terrible that I broke my word.

[gummybear]

He blocked me on facebook. Ouch. It hurts like hell. Gosh I'm so stupid for what I did. :(

[pandagirl]

You're not stupid! Don't be so hard on yourself! Everyone has moments of weakness, but it doesn't mean you're a weak person.

 

Do you know how many people have contacted their ex? mostly EVERYONE!

[Cherry Blossom 35]

You will feel crappy for about 24 hours. Then the urge to berate yourself will start to ease. After about 48-72 hours you will realize what a loser your ex is for blocking you on Facebook.

[Mary3]

You will feel crappy for about 24 hours. Then the urge to berate yourself will start to ease. After about 48-72 hours you will realize what a loser your ex is for blocking you on Facebook.

 

Wow Agreed ! What a jerk. You don't need him . I would block him and delete him from your facebook and any other form of contact. Are you looking at his page daily ? You need to take a 3 month break from looking at it. Its hurting you.

[Steelrain21]

When he saw your message it was probably a huge ego trip for him. He knew it'd really bother you if he didn't reply and blocked you. He's just trying to get to you.....don't let him.