Flowerpower7 Posted September 25, 2008 Posted September 25, 2008 Guys: Is it possible for you to be best buddies with a girl who told you that she will never have sex with you?
Jenksz Posted September 25, 2008 Posted September 25, 2008 Guys: Is it possible for you to be best buddies with a girl who told you that she will never have sex with you? Uh yea absolutely, I don't see how her stating she wont have sex with you affecting your friendship, especially since things like that can be laced with humor. One of my closest friends is a girl who i met at camp, never really talked to her alot, but then we started chatting. I eventually met up with her with the intention of having sex with her that night, she had the same intention, we ended up not doing that, and now were the bestest friends.
You'reasian Posted September 25, 2008 Posted September 25, 2008 Guys: Is it possible for you to be best buddies with a girl who told you that she will never have sex with you? Absolutely. Its called friendship . I don't speak for all males, but I prefer to keep my female friends just 'friends' because there's only enough room, time and attention for one special woman - and that special woman is ideally my best friend, my lover, my girlfriend and maybe something more...
superd Posted September 26, 2008 Posted September 26, 2008 No way, it is not possible, you have some hidden desire for her. I think you have to deal with that possibility.
arhelleny Posted September 27, 2008 Posted September 27, 2008 If you are only good friends , please dont do that , or you will feel embarrassed after that and maybe demage your pure feeling . You should respect her thinking , if you really love her and want her to be your gf , maybe you can take some act to express you , it is difficult to find quite a good friend in our life , I think . so please cherish it .
BentSpine Posted September 30, 2008 Posted September 30, 2008 Best friends would probably only work if I was already turned off by her body. And in that case, me being turned off, I would actually be grateful for her for telling me that no sex would happen.
Geishawhelk Posted September 30, 2008 Posted September 30, 2008 I was told by a guy a few years back, "You know, I really have the hots for you, and would love to get you into bed, but I like you so much as a friend, and I have such a great time with you, I would hate to risk jeopardizing that, so I don't want to ruin our friendship. But I just thought you deserved to know that...." and then he offered me a crisp (potato chip). I laughed so hard, I nearly slipped a disc. Fortunately, he was laughing too.... it's just the way he came out with it, casual, strolling along, window shopping.... But at least we knew where we stood!
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