dmb05 Posted September 25, 2008 Posted September 25, 2008 Hey guys I have a question. One of my friends told me and my best friend, since we were both single, about his cousin that he wanted one of us to start talking to. She is very pretty and very nice. Well the 3 of us are in a band together. She came to listen to us and told my friend that the drummer was very cute and she wouldnt mind going on a date with him. I'm the drummer by the way. So my friend says he thinks he's gonna see if she'd like to go out. He wanted to go on a double date with this girl and my other friend and his wife. When my friend told his cousin, she asked if the guy that wanted to go out was the drummer, and they said no, and they said she was disappointed and wold rather go out with me. My friend has asked her on 2 dates and she hasn't went out with him yet. She doesn't respond much to his myspace posts, yet she responds to mine everytime. I've been thinking about asking her on a date, but would that be wrong of me? I think my friend is halfway mad at me already about it, but I haven't said anything towards a date or whatever. Everyone else tells me that if the girl isn't interested in my friend, that I should just go on and ask her out and tell my friend she's just not interested. I'm just trying to be the good friend though. What should I do? Thanks!
ElTigreBlanco Posted September 25, 2008 Posted September 25, 2008 I think you need to talk to your friend about it and see how he feels. I mean he really shouldn't be all that attached but some people get like that. On the other hand, the girl is probably not worth losing the friend over if you think it would come to that. As a side note, I once accidentally stole a good friends girlfriend. We ended up dating for 3.5 years. He got over in a couple months and we're great friends to this day, though the girl has faded out of both of our lives.
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