Flowerpower7 Posted September 24, 2008 Posted September 24, 2008 If there's someone that you want, but cant have....how would you act towards them?
audrey_1 Posted September 24, 2008 Posted September 24, 2008 If there's someone that you want, but cant have....how would you act towards them? I'm struggling with this now. I don't want to lose his friendship, but know that I want more than that and he doesn't. So it's a matter of maintaining NC for my health, or feigning courtesy and kindness if and when he contacts me. I lose wither way, but so does he.
manugeorge Posted September 24, 2008 Posted September 24, 2008 I'll probably go lick my rejection wounds in a corner and keep my distance from them, at least, until the "wanting" subsides.
Author Flowerpower7 Posted September 24, 2008 Author Posted September 24, 2008 I'm trying to figure out if this is the case "wanting someone, but can't have" or is just not interested. I'm confused. There's a guy i know, who is sending me mixed signals and I'm just not sure.
ElTigreBlanco Posted September 25, 2008 Posted September 25, 2008 I can have anyone I want so I've never had to deal with this problem . Actually, I don't think I ever let myself want some one I can't have in any kind of serious way or I withdraw. Too much risk of serious pain if I don't withdraw. I mean if you can't have them its really the only thing you can do right? It might not be entirely fair to the person, but I don't really see many situations where a person who you can't have is going to be hurt worse by your bouncing than you will be by your staying and secretly pining away.
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