Konfuzion Posted September 24, 2008 Posted September 24, 2008 Wow I just confused myself to no end.... I just recently was dumped by my girlfriend of 4 years, and it has since been my goal to try to get back with her. Well the other day I met this beautiful girl and asked her out, we just had lunch together and she was so pleasant to spend time with and did I mention she is beautiful.... Ugggg I don't know what do do, I don't want to hurt anyone or string anyone along. I love my ex, but this new girl I could easily see myself with if after dating for a little bit she is still the same person.
nowhereman82 Posted September 24, 2008 Posted September 24, 2008 Yeah...that feeling is easy to come by after a break up...it's called a rebound. You can be selfish and go for it and enjoy it while it lasts....or save her from yourself. Your call.
Isolde Posted September 24, 2008 Posted September 24, 2008 I was going to tell you to go for the new girl until I read the part that says "I love my ex" in present tense... Yeah, DON'T date her... but if I were you I'd tell her the reason so she doesn't feel unduly rejected
Author Konfuzion Posted September 24, 2008 Author Posted September 24, 2008 Ugggg not the news I wanted to hear... Its hard to think that its a rebound, because normally under those circumstances its just about wanting a hook-up but I was genuinely interested in what this girl had to say.
nowhereman82 Posted September 24, 2008 Posted September 24, 2008 I was genuinely interested in the fist girl after my seperation. She was awesome. But then I realized I was ignoring my personal issues and using her as a replacement. So I let her go after dating 6 weeks. She was crushed *shrug* Get over the ex first, no rush. Just go and have sex with lots of strangers! Lots more fulfilling
Author Konfuzion Posted September 24, 2008 Author Posted September 24, 2008 Get over the ex first, no rush. Just go and have sex with lots of strangers! Lots more fulfilling Can one of those strangers be the cutie I went out with today Sorry that made me laugh.
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