miss_understood Posted September 24, 2008 Posted September 24, 2008 Hi all, Could do with some of your views please. Have been seeing someone for a few months now. All was going well. We were texting every day a few times (not obsessively). Anyway, yesterday last text I received was very early in the morning. Which is very unusual for him. But I thought he was probably busy and did not want to bother him. Late in the afternoon, I got a little bit concerned, so texted him to ask if something was wrong. I got no reply to that, just a text saying he was on his way home. OK, so I texted back asking if I'd upset him. Got nothing back. Next day still nothing. Then in the afternoon I got a nasty-ish text saying that he got the message because I hadn't replied to several texts he had send me. So I said I hadn't received any texts from him since sending him the one asking if he was upset. He thinks I'm making it up, and that I am playing mind games etc. etc. He's now accusing me of all sorts, even that I've found someone else. I am confused now. Asked to phone him, but he says he's shocked and better not to phone him (yet). I have got the feeling now that either he is genuinely upset or that HE is actually playing mind games and trying to turn it around on me. Don't know what to do really. Let him calm down a bit and then maybe phone? Or just lick my wounds and accept it's over, due to a technology blip? Thanks x
Frankasy Posted September 24, 2008 Posted September 24, 2008 He's just probably stressed from work and let all his rage out on you. Sometimes people get misunderstood from IM or text messages, I suggest that next time you both talk on the phone, that way any misunderstandings will be gone.
Garbo Posted September 24, 2008 Posted September 24, 2008 Sounds like this guy has a big problem. In this day and age of technology and the goofs that come along with it, if he doesn't realize that this kind of thing can happen, something's wrong. He sounds like he is trying to control you or fight with you. Big red flag he some kind of personality defect.
Author miss_understood Posted September 24, 2008 Author Posted September 24, 2008 Thanks for your views. Perhaps it is stress. Seems so out of character for him to act the way he did. But I am hurt being accussed of playing mind games. Hopefully he'll have calmed down a bit tomorrow and we can speak on the phone and have it out.
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