Author SurferGurl80 Posted September 24, 2008 Author Posted September 24, 2008 OMG WTF! I thought you two were 17. Sad, isn't it?
Krajt Posted September 24, 2008 Posted September 24, 2008 Sad, isn't it? Yep, but what will be even sadder is if you do not dump him, because this behaviour is abusive.
westrock Posted September 24, 2008 Posted September 24, 2008 I agreed to meet him but it's in a public place, so I'm not concerned. If it continues to go badly, I don't have a choice but to cut him loose. If you talk with him tonight, I suspect he is going to try and blame everything on you and try to get you to incite an argument to justify his actions. Instead, don't stoop to his level. Just remain totally calm and just listen to him without judgment to show him the mature person you are. Don't even try to convince him that his thinking is irrational. He needs to figure that out himself. Tell him that if he gets pissed off by something you do, that is entirely his choice how he feels, however, the mature way to deal with matters is to talk them out and it is not fair to trash talk under any circumstances. Once he's done talking, just say you have to think about things for a few days and leave it at that.
Author SurferGurl80 Posted September 24, 2008 Author Posted September 24, 2008 Yep, but what will be even sadder is if you do not dump him, because this behaviour is abusive. Don't worry, I agree. I've never been in an abusive relationship and I don't really have any interest in finding out what it's like. THIS SUCKS! I'm leaving in a few minutes but I'll pop in tomorrow and say hi. I know I'll be fine physically. This is just very mentally confusing. Have a good night and I'll talk to ya'll soon. Thanks for the advice and encouragement.
Star Gazer Posted September 25, 2008 Posted September 25, 2008 I'm not even going to bother reading anyone's responses. Just the OP. A friend of mine recently faced an identical situation. He was LIVID when he found out she had a MySpace. Within 5 days, she wound up meeting a girl he had been carrying on a relationship with for the past 2.5 years. He didn't want either of them having a MySpace for fear that they'd find each other. When things got serious between he and the other girl about 9 months ago, he deleted his MS and demanded my friend do the same. Something is SOOOOO not right about this situation.
malibustacydoll Posted September 25, 2008 Posted September 25, 2008 Wow. Yeah, if I were you I would be angry at him for trying to be in control of you. If you were hiding it from him then it would be one thing. Due to the fact that you told him about it and even suggested he create one, then there is no problem. Good luck with that. Just be careful not to become an addict of facebook. My boyfriend is that right now-- it is rather annoying for him to be on facebook for hours rather than spending quality time with me.
jadedone Posted October 2, 2008 Posted October 2, 2008 Any update on this story? I'm guessing she caved in and deleted Facebook and her Loveshack account.
rod_in_gtown Posted October 2, 2008 Posted October 2, 2008 That was her last post on LS on sep 24. I hope he didn't strangle her for being on facebook. Maybe she's shackled in a basement somewhere without internet access.
Lishy Posted October 2, 2008 Posted October 2, 2008 That was her last post on LS on sep 24. I hope he didn't strangle her for being on facebook. Maybe she's shackled in a basement somewhere without internet access. Oh dont say that! He did seem a bit controlling!!:eek:
rod_in_gtown Posted October 2, 2008 Posted October 2, 2008 Oh dont say that! He did seem a bit controlling!!:eek: He does sound like the type who would do that.
Lishy Posted October 2, 2008 Posted October 2, 2008 Maybe he has banned her from the whole internet!!
rod_in_gtown Posted October 2, 2008 Posted October 2, 2008 Maybe he has banned her from the whole internet!! Yeah, with her being such a whore and dared defy his will by joining facebook! I honestly don't get women who are not suservient to their men, what are they thinking? They're free? sheesh!
rod_in_gtown Posted October 2, 2008 Posted October 2, 2008 I know rod in gspot, what are these girls like!! Freudian slip? What are you telling me?
rod_in_gtown Posted October 2, 2008 Posted October 2, 2008 You are kinda hot .... for a short bloke!!!! Thanks!! I think, that was a backhanded compliment? or a low blow... I guess it would have to be a low blow to reach me all the way down here. Hey! at least my legs reach the ground!
Lishy Posted October 2, 2008 Posted October 2, 2008 Well I was wondering if you would be able to run between my legs without bending down! I love that game hahhaha I am only jesting hon, not being mean!
rod_in_gtown Posted October 2, 2008 Posted October 2, 2008 Well I was wondering if you would be able to run between my legs without bending down! That's my favorite game but I always keep bumping my head I am only jesting hon, not being mean! I know
monkey00 Posted October 3, 2008 Posted October 3, 2008 No offense but your bf sounds insecure. Myspace is more the likely place for people to hookup. Facebook is possible also, but least common compared to myspace. I have a page also and almost all my friends rarely go on if ever now.
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