bunny03 Posted September 24, 2008 Posted September 24, 2008 I've been in a relationship with the same woman for just under three years. We have a very loving, trusting and respectful relationship. Money has always been tight and time has always been tight. We both work a lot, but I am more flexible than she is. We have never been on vacation alone. Her excuse - no time, no money. She does do a lot for me and spends as much time with me as she can, but I've been asking her time and time again to get away with me alone somewhere. She hasn't. My problem? She is going away on vacation with a platonic friend soon. I am not sure if I should be angry or not. My emotions are all over the place and I'm just not sure if being angry at her is fair. Opinions?? Thanks!!!
Scooter25 Posted September 24, 2008 Posted September 24, 2008 Is the the friend a male or female, because if it was a male I would be VERY unhappy. Especially since you have been asking for quite awhile for her to get away
Author bunny03 Posted September 24, 2008 Author Posted September 24, 2008 Female. If it was a male I would not be happy or accepting of that.
superd Posted September 24, 2008 Posted September 24, 2008 male or female, I would be pissed off and i would maybe even threaten to leave her. Thats a crappy, deceitful thing to do to you.
westrock Posted September 24, 2008 Posted September 24, 2008 Her excuse - no time, no money. Tell her you're actually happy she's going on vacaction and hope she has a good time and then ask her "Do you think you and I can go away next time?". See what she says because time and money don't seem to be a problem. If she's hesitant, ask her if there is some other reason why she won't go on vacation with you.
superd Posted September 24, 2008 Posted September 24, 2008 blah, blah, blah...westrock...becareful with that advice bunny...westrock is saying that you should let you partner continue to walk all over you and take advantage of you and maybe even cheat on you (i.e. you never know what may happen on her little "trip".
westrock Posted September 24, 2008 Posted September 24, 2008 blah, blah, blah...westrock...becareful with that advice bunny...westrock is saying that you should let you partner continue to walk all over you and take advantage of you and maybe even cheat on you (i.e. you never know what may happen on her little "trip". Superd.. i agree with you. Bunny needs to be careful to not let her walk all over him. But, he also needs to get to the bottom of the situation otherwise she will walk over him.
superd Posted September 24, 2008 Posted September 24, 2008 There is no bottom of things, he asked her to go away with her, she said she couldn't afford and then she plans to slip off with someone else. This is all plain to see. It doesn't go any deeper than that. In fact, that is what makes it all sound quite sad actually.
ianandris Posted September 24, 2008 Posted September 24, 2008 I would be super pissed, bro. That is absolutely unacceptable.
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