kiababy Posted September 24, 2008 Posted September 24, 2008 Hi all, I haven't been on in....2 years I guess. I'm in my mid 40's and I had a married lover 15 years younger than me. I'm divorced and it made me feel so good to have a hot younger man lusting after me. Well after 5 years the 'relationship' finally died a natural death. It started to go downhill for me when he and his wife had a baby - for some reason everything changed at that point. I had been wrestling with ending it for a long time before that but that gave me the final push over the edge. I didn't exactly end it, I just stopped communicating him. Stopped returning his text messages, answering his calls....just left it alone. Do I miss him....NO. Being the other man/woman goes nowhere most of the time - I say most of the time because my Dad actually married his 'other woman', but it didn't work out so what does that tell you? The grass isn't always greener. I'm happy, dating single men..and guess what - I can call them whenever I want, see them on weekends..and on holidays too! Please guys, end it first chance you get, save yourself years of heartache and pain. Been there, done that, over it.
manugeorge Posted September 24, 2008 Posted September 24, 2008 Atta girl! Sometimes, it does take time to see the light but when you do see it, there is no comparative feeling of the freedom you get from it.
Author kiababy Posted September 24, 2008 Author Posted September 24, 2008 ...you just have to be willing to look at it! I mentioned this part in a previous thread last time I was on - around the same time that was going on I was seeing a 'separated man' who kept going back and forth with his wife. I always thought 'one day when he's finally single'.... Well that guy finally did divorce his wife, and we started really dating...what an eye opener - he was not the guy I thought I was getting, so....even if they do become single, doesn't guarantee it will work out. Sorry to be the bearer of bad news guys:o
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