kashmir Posted November 17, 2008 Posted November 17, 2008 If only you knew how much I do what you described. I'm telling you though, women are just so cold. Everyone is cold, actually, not just women. People don't want to meet new people. Girls don't want to meet new guys. I go to a party to have fun and meet new people. Almost everyone else goes to congregate in their exclusive groups and block any others out. During the day, women are always saying they're busy with something and don't want to be bothered. All the time is their "me time" (as one told me). There's never a time where they're welcoming of new guys.
Author one goal Posted November 18, 2008 Author Posted November 18, 2008 How about if I write a little note to her, and tell her I find her really cute, and write my number on there asking to call me sometime?
Isolde Posted November 18, 2008 Posted November 18, 2008 It's best to do it in person but baby steps, eh? If she likes you she likes you, she'd think the note was cute if she liked you.
Green Posted November 18, 2008 Posted November 18, 2008 How about if I write a little note to her, and tell her I find her really cute, and write my number on there asking to call me sometime? Thats really lame but better then nothing, why don't you stop trying to figure some trick around actually just talking to the girl and asking her out. Next time you come back I want you to be asking about something you actualy did and tried
Author one goal Posted November 18, 2008 Author Posted November 18, 2008 Thats really lame but better then nothing, why don't you stop trying to figure some trick around actually just talking to the girl and asking her out. Next time you come back I want you to be asking about something you actualy did and tried Yea, like last thur I was going to talk to her, but she wasn't at class, so of course that didn't work out.
Green Posted November 18, 2008 Posted November 18, 2008 Yea, like last thur I was going to talk to her, but she wasn't at class, so of course that didn't work out. You can't have tunnel vision for this one girl you don't know... why not talk to other girls... or make friends with some more guys thus making you cooler and more likely to get girls. Tommorow you will see cute girls, many of them... talk to all of them... heck maybe ask alot of them out
Author one goal Posted November 18, 2008 Author Posted November 18, 2008 Turns out she has a bf. Because before class I saw him walking her to class, and he was carrying her stuff for her, and they were talking about after school and going over to her house and that. I kinda had a hunch cause I saw her with this guy before but didnt know for sure. This sucks though! I was seriously about to talk to her until I saw that. Also this guy is big like 6-5 and built so I was like screw this! he could destroy me. I decided it was best not to talk to her then. This sucks. Whenever I find a hot chick they always have a boyfriend. It's pissing me off. Im about to give up!
kashmir Posted November 19, 2008 Posted November 19, 2008 Not necessarily her boyfriend. You should still try anyway just for experience.
Author one goal Posted November 19, 2008 Author Posted November 19, 2008 Not necessarily her boyfriend. You should still try anyway just for experience. True, but honestly I'm pretty sure it's her boyfriend. So you mean there is nothing wrong with hitting on a girl who has a bf?
kashmir Posted November 19, 2008 Posted November 19, 2008 Yeah it's ok if you're not sure he's her boyfriend. It can even be considered ok if you know she has a boyfriend. It's not particularly the most successful or best idea, but you're just a single guy looking for a girl. If she's receptive to your advances when she has a boyfriend, then that's her (and his) problem. Plus you'll know that she isn't that great of a girl if she's talking to other guys. Point is, trying never hurts (assuming you don't take it personally).
Green Posted November 19, 2008 Posted November 19, 2008 Kashmir gives some great advice and I hope hes following his own advice. Seriously if you just saw her talking to a guy it shouldn't stop you. If you talk to her and then ask her out in a respectful way and she does have a bf she'll just let you know. And if that 6'5 guy beats you up he'll be in jail and then she won't have a bf anymore... and I really doubt he'll do anything to you even if he is her bf I mean its not middle school
Author one goal Posted November 20, 2008 Author Posted November 20, 2008 I didn't get a chance to talk to her much today. Before class I was sitting outside the room talking to the guys, and saw her walk by, she looked kinda unahppy again lol. Anyways I called her name out and said hi to her. Took her a second, but she looked at me with just a small smile on her face and quietly said "hey" thats it. Is it good I'm paying attention to her like that even just saying hi? I mean does that give her subtle hints I'm interested in her?
Green Posted November 21, 2008 Posted November 21, 2008 Tommorow ask a girl out... any girl... come back and write about that... don't ask how.... don't make excuses of why you can't... just ask a girl out... don't come back and ask any questions... just figure a way to follow this post and do what I'm asking
Author one goal Posted November 21, 2008 Author Posted November 21, 2008 Tommorow ask a girl out... any girl... come back and write about that... don't ask how.... don't make excuses of why you can't... just ask a girl out... don't come back and ask any questions... just figure a way to follow this post and do what I'm asking No, i mean about the girl in class. Any advice what to say when i see her again?
Green Posted November 21, 2008 Posted November 21, 2008 No, i mean about the girl in class. Any advice what to say when i see her again? shes a girl right... I said just go ask any girl out... maybe she will be the girl... or maybe one of the other thousands of cute girls you pass in the halls of your school will be the girl... either way you look at this it will help you out with this girl. Now since part of this is teaching you to think for yourself you have to do what I said then come back and right about you doing what I said and then I can help you.
Konfuzion Posted November 21, 2008 Posted November 21, 2008 then I can help you. Damn your optimistic I gave up ages ago....
Author one goal Posted November 25, 2008 Author Posted November 25, 2008 ****!! I saw her last name in class, so I looked her up on myspace. Anyways as I expected she has a boyfriend, same guy I saw walking with her to class. Damn. Nothing ever goes right for me. I guess thats why she doesnt talk to me much cause she can tell Im into her? Got that hotter brunette in my class, but im too intimidated to talk to her.
Isolde Posted November 26, 2008 Posted November 26, 2008 ****!! I saw her last name in class, so I looked her up on myspace. Anyways as I expected she has a boyfriend, same guy I saw walking with her to class. Damn. Nothing ever goes right for me. I guess thats why she doesnt talk to me much cause she can tell Im into her? Got that hotter brunette in my class, but im too intimidated to talk to her. You're putting all your eggs in one paltry little basket, in fact I think that basket doesn't even exist. Go ask out other girls jeez... including that "hot brunette." Just live too fast for your mind to stop you
Green Posted November 26, 2008 Posted November 26, 2008 ****!! I saw her last name in class, so I looked her up on myspace. Anyways as I expected she has a boyfriend, same guy I saw walking with her to class. Damn. Nothing ever goes right for me. I guess thats why she doesnt talk to me much cause she can tell Im into her? Got that hotter brunette in my class, but im too intimidated to talk to her. what happened to asking a girl out for better or worse and then comming back and posting about that. You're not even entertaining anymore because your stuck in a loop. Please for the love of Mike don't come and post till you have tried something. You don't have to only go after the hottest girls in the class, even a girl who you may not notice will probably look incredible when you see her naked... some girls just have more money for nice clothes and make up and do their hair better. but if you ask some girl who may not be that great in your eyes and take her on a few dates and get to see her naked then wow you'll probably really like it
Author one goal Posted November 26, 2008 Author Posted November 26, 2008 what happened to asking a girl out for better or worse and then comming back and posting about that. You're not even entertaining anymore because your stuck in a loop. Please for the love of Mike don't come and post till you have tried something. You don't have to only go after the hottest girls in the class, even a girl who you may not notice will probably look incredible when you see her naked... some girls just have more money for nice clothes and make up and do their hair better. but if you ask some girl who may not be that great in your eyes and take her on a few dates and get to see her naked then wow you'll probably really like it I'll try talking to the hot brunette. Next semester though things will change though and hopefully i will have more hot ones in my classes.
Green Posted November 26, 2008 Posted November 26, 2008 I'll try talking to the hot brunette. Next semester though things will change though and hopefully i will have more hot ones in my classes. I'm an experienced time traveler and you can't change anything in the future such as this next semester you speak of you can only change things in the present. so don't try to talk to this hot brunette... go talk to a bunch of girls and ask them all out. Seriously if you spend months building up the courage just to talk to a single hot girl your most likely not going to get anywhere. I'm not going to lie and hopefully this doesn't offend you but I swear if you were my brother or friend and we were still having this same conversation in person I'd kick your ass... I mean I'd literaly punch you in the face or something
Author one goal Posted December 9, 2008 Author Posted December 9, 2008 In the morning I have my presentation in my class. Im really nervous, and will probably look really shy in front of the class. That hot brunette I find cute sits infront of the class. Would she find it cute if I look bashful?
Perry Posted December 9, 2008 Posted December 9, 2008 Damn your optimistic I gave up ages ago.... I now see what you mean.
Green Posted December 11, 2008 Posted December 11, 2008 In the morning I have my presentation in my class. Im really nervous, and will probably look really shy in front of the class. That hot brunette I find cute sits infront of the class. Would she find it cute if I look bashful? I vow now to never post in this thread or any other thread started by one goal... and yes she'll find it cute if you look bashful...
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