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You can talk a little.

Women in general are attracted to a man that is confident and knows what he wants, if you walk right up to a woman the first time you see her and ask her out that shows both qualities.

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You can talk a little.

Women in general are attracted to a man that is confident and knows what he wants, if you walk right up to a woman the first time you see her and ask her out that shows both qualities.

 

Ok. So after I tell her my name if she doesnt creep out i'll ask her out lol.

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Ok. So after I tell her my name if she doesnt creep out i'll ask her out lol.

 

We can give you the step by step advice you want, your going have to wing it and why would it be creepy to invite her to something? Do you think she's actualy going to call her mother up after shes done with you and be like "mom the creepiest thing just happened a guy just came and talked to me and then he tried to invite me out for coffee, I'm just so creeped out right now can I sleep in bed with you and dad tonight"... that was supposed to make you laugh by the way... you see how were having a conversation about how to approach chicks well you need to go have a conversation with her about what ever and then you could say I'm going to get some coffee want to come with, she might say yes she might say no... if she says no then say "well it was nice talking to you let me get your number so I can invite you to do something some other time" and basicaly just go say something and try something tommorow even if your thinking to yourself shes busy or I don't know what to say or I'm just to nervous just go try something tommorow and try and ask her out... And don't worry about being a creep

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From what I read in your post I can tell your not truly confident in yourself. That is a major point in gaming girls, if you don't have that then that is your goal at this point. It's easy to acquire, but takes dedication and work and I highly recommend you get that down before you try and approach her. I have no problem with confidence, it's always skyrocketed, thanks to the paragon project btw.

 

I want to help you out, but in order to do that your going to have to help yourself. You need to learn how to have the trophy mentality in your head. You need to realize you are the prize and not her. Because if in your head you already feel " she's the prize " then that will not create attraction. You will give submissive behaviour and it will not work correctly.

 

I've learned so much on this subject thanks to the project I've been on for some time now.

I want the next time you see her, know in your head...

" She's nothing special "

" There's plenty of girls just like her. "

" There's no reason for me to worry "

 

You need to think these thought's in your head, because if you keep thinking like that I can gurantee you will not succesfully get her.

 

Women want a man a real man, not some guy that isn't sure of himself, or is scared to have a regular conversation with women. Think about it, why is it that most girls are with guys who always have the same quality's?

 

Quality's like, having great social skills, virtually no fear with approaching, dressing himself amazingly because they know there worth it. They take pride in themselves. They have the right mindeset within themselves.

 

I can't stress this enough. If you want to get a better understanding of this I recommend you try the paragon project. PM me if your interested

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Well it's the girls looks I like, but she seems like a nice person, just by watching her in class, and how she acts.

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sooo did you approach her or some one today? By the way I lack luster opions about most of Players advice

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sooo did you approach her or some one today? By the way I lack luster opions about most of Players advice

 

No I don't have school today. Just Tue, and Thur

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sooo did you approach her or some one today? By the way I lack luster opions about most of Players advice

 

 

 

What were you trying to say in this post?

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So seriously Tue I wanna talk with this girl.I don't know what to say to her in the hall before , or after class.

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So seriously Tue I wanna talk with this girl.I don't know what to say to her in the hall before , or after class.

 

GOOD Don't try to plan out what your going to say to her, FFS man up and say something. If it fails then there is another woman out there just as good if not better, just keep asking until one bites.

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GOOD Don't try to plan out what your going to say to her, FFS man up and say something. If it fails then there is another woman out there just as good if not better, just keep asking until one bites.

 

Should I tell her i find her really cute?

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Again don't over think it, I wouldn't say she is cute, sexy, beautiful or any of those things. She already knows you think that or you wouldn't approach her. Seriously stop giving this so much thought focus on being confident and walk up to her and start with saying "Hi" or "Hi, my name is...." and then just take it from there, make sure you ask her out and BE CONFIDENT.

 

You know what I am going to post a picture of the girl I have been seeing for the last week or so she is 100% hotness and its because I follow my own advice that she is seeing me. I will take a pic tonight when I see her.

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Again don't over think it, I wouldn't say she is cute, sexy, beautiful or any of those things. She already knows you think that or you wouldn't approach her. Seriously stop giving this so much thought focus on being confident and walk up to her and start with saying "Hi" or "Hi, my name is...." and then just take it from there, make sure you ask her out and BE CONFIDENT.

 

You know what I am going to post a picture of the girl I have been seeing for the last week or so she is 100% hotness and its because I follow my own advice that she is seeing me. I will take a pic tonight when I see her.

 

Ok so I have never talked to this girl before, so the first time I speak to her I should ask her out? Wouldn't a girl find that creepy a guy she doesn't know asking her out?

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Ok so I have never talked to this girl before, so the first time I speak to her I should ask her out? Wouldn't a girl find that creepy a guy she doesn't know asking her out?

 

Who cares if she finds it creepy I mean if your friendly and respectful about it she really shouldn't hold it against you. Remember be confident if you start thinking negative things refocus on posotive. You'll get better at speaking to girls if you keep doing it so don't even worry about if she'll go out with you. And your not going to just walk up to her and say "will you go out with me" walk up have a conversation about what ever seems fun and then invite her out for coffee or what ever.

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I don't like coffee. So why shouldnt I comment about how pretty she is?

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I don't like coffee. So why shouldnt I comment about how pretty she is?

 

do what ever you want. So if you tell her she is pretty what do you expect... its not really a conversation starter... she'll just be like thanks and then you won't have a conversation or anything. You should say what ever you want to say just don't come back like you have and tell us how you did absolutly nothing because it was imposible to talk to her or that you were just to nervouse

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That other girl in my other class i sit next to who i messaged on facebook but she never replied back should i message her again, saying sorry I didn't talk to you in class or something like that?

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That other girl in my other class i sit next to who i messaged on facebook but she never replied back should i message her again, saying sorry I didn't talk to you in class or something like that?

 

No. You have already shown her you are not confident by messaging her on myspace.

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Ok so here is the girl I have been seeing hotter than hot, and I am not different than you or any other guy I just walked up to her with confidence and asked her out.

 

 

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Don't mention the entire Facebook thing to her and Don't send her anymore msgs on Facebook. Seriously what you need to do is start talking to these girls in person... and Don't be so serious have fun with it treat it like a fun time. If you have fun they will have fun. And after all isn't this what you want to have some fun with them... eventualy naked fun... olright man good luck we'll be able to give you better and more specific advice once you start actualy talking to and asking out the limitless hot girls who go to your school. and technicaly there are probably atleast 10 or more hot chicks in every one of your classes so don't be to picky people really are a universe waiting to be discovered

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Dude I hate to say it, but pretty much every one of your posts is either "I don't know what to say to her" or "Should I tell her she's cute?" Are you reading the advice KMT and Konfuzion posted? It's good advice, and its gonna do you wonders man.

 

There's really not much more advice that can be given on this subject. Just say "hey hows it going?" and the conversation should drive itself from there. If it doesn't then she's probably not interested and can be shelved.

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I messaged the one girl again on facebook she didnt reply.I wonder if she even uses her facebook much lol. I wonder what she will say tomorrow in class if she did see it since I sent another. I will try and talk to the other girl too.

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That girl I like in business class, she wasn't there today so I couldnt attempt to talk to her.

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So any more advice for Thur class?

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So tomorrow i have class. Any suggestions? A class before mine uses the same classroom on tue so we have to wait until it gets out before we can go and sit down so it means i might get a chance to talk to her before class while we are waiting.

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