bhadresh88 Posted August 20, 2003 Posted August 20, 2003 need very sirious help from u guys who ever read this post. i have been love with one girl very sirious. i love her so much since i felt that she loves me so much truely. i had many girlfriend in past, but never fell in love with them bz i knew that they wasnt in love with me. i always gives advise to my friends wat to do in any situation of love. but i completly lost in this situation. she is a indian girl and me too. we are both hindu. like this love i never feel in my life. and i just got feeling that this is the girl i was loking for, she is looks ok, is not like she is so beautiful and i will never get like this girl. i know i m hendsom enough to find more beautiful girl then her. but beauti is not only important for successful life. nature has the same important for successeful life. and thats wat i find in her. i feel like i want this girl if i want successful life. she respect me, and never get mad on me, even i got mad she done something so i got happy. oh my god i cant ferget those moment which i had with her, those are my unfergetable moments which i never ferget. and will never ferget. last month she said she likes someone else, after she told me we go out one time,a nd she told me that she likes him, she siad if i had understand her then i wont happand, and she told me that i got mad soon that she didnt like it now she likes him and i have to ferget her, she gives me big hug last time, but she still want to be my friend, and today somebody called me at my home and asked me why did i called him, i said i didnt called nobody, and he just tellin me bad words, he said he want to hit me, he knows where i work, he called me at my home phone, he said he knows wat aria cod cellphone i have, wat college i go to, and then i said wat u want from me then he said he want to hit me,i said ok then come tomo, he said he gon come to my work, i said ok, i just got feling that this guy is my x girlfriends new boyfriend, otherwise how he got my home number, how he got where i work, how he know which college i go to, i m not affraid, but just thinking that what kind of girl she is, how can she gives my personal information to other guy, my girlfriend from india she also left me in middle of the ocean. but this time i got feeling that this si not the girl like that girl who is from india, but i got rong , and dont know wat to do, i losing my selfconfidence, and got fear thta i will never figure out wat girl want, and i m not able to understtand girl, i love this girl. and want her back, finally i m feeling pritty good right now its one month to happand, and i m trying to consentret on other things then love. but still i love her, we had sex many time, and i think that the things i cant ferget. it always come infront of my eyes, dont know wat to do. if somebody can give me any suggetion, advise which can help me to feel better.
PurpleAngel Posted August 20, 2003 Posted August 20, 2003 Healing does not happen over night. Try not to daydream over what you had, dream about what you want in the future BUT try not to think that it will be with her… leave it open, you may meet someone a lot better. Work through things as they come up. It is hard, and painful but it will pass! Be positive about your future and let her go. You say you want her back, but you only want her back cos it hurts so much, cos if I heard someone say to me, I like someone else, that would be my queue to leave. LET HER GO, move on and meet someone that likes you and ONLY you! Good Luck ~PurpleAngel~
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