JamesM Posted September 23, 2008 Posted September 23, 2008 I think you need to take a cold shower. It means that the activities taking place are somehow not ordinary for ordinary couples to perform. It is as good as you can make it.
Author JooLee Posted September 23, 2008 Author Posted September 23, 2008 ooo are u kinky in bed, james?
Krajt Posted September 23, 2008 Posted September 23, 2008 The Kinkier the better, the stuff that turns me on is surreal.
Author JooLee Posted September 23, 2008 Author Posted September 23, 2008 im discovering kinky people now. i've come to the right club
Krajt Posted September 23, 2008 Posted September 23, 2008 Sex is about expressing yourself and having a good time and there comes a time where the missionary position and doggie style become routine and mundane. That's where experimentation and exploration of the body, soul and mind comes into being. When I have sex, I don't want to feel a normal orgasm, I want to feel as though I am the earth during the big bang, I want an explosion of chemistry and of course lots of semen.
grogster Posted September 23, 2008 Posted September 23, 2008 Kinky is outside the norm--at least initially. My last GF was seriously into BDSM--ropes, spanking, flogging, rough anal. Her only complaint about our love life was that I didn't flog her enough. We had a blast. When you have kinky sex often it becomes the new norm. Now that I'm single again, I wonder whether I can enjoy a plain vanilla love life. On the other hand, I'm not going to any BDSM dating sites. I find many of those folks too humorless, serious and just plain severe.
Lishy Posted September 23, 2008 Posted September 23, 2008 So Grog say you met a new girl who you liked alot but she liked straight up sex with no kink .... Would that float your boat?
JamesM Posted September 23, 2008 Posted September 23, 2008 ooo are u kinky in bed, james? Some would say yes. Others would say no. I tend to be whatever makes the woman happy. It is not about what makes me happy. It is about what makes her happy, because if she is happy, then she will make me happy in return.
Author JooLee Posted September 23, 2008 Author Posted September 23, 2008 It is not about what makes me happy. It is about what makes her happy, because if she is happy, then she will make me happy in return. that should be the first thing they teach us in sex ed class.
grogster Posted September 23, 2008 Posted September 23, 2008 So Grog say you met a new girl who you liked alot but she liked straight up sex with no kink .... Would that float your boat? If we connected on other levels, absolutely. I'm not rigid about such things. My sex with J was phenomenal but in other areas we both lacked. Nor would I ever attempt to force, convince or lobby a woman to have BDSM sex. That's not me. If it happens, great. If not, that's OK, too. The person trumps the kink.
JamesM Posted September 23, 2008 Posted September 23, 2008 that should be the first thing they teach us in sex ed class. I agree. Sex is much more than mechanics and technique. It is about compassion and selflessness.
Krajt Posted September 23, 2008 Posted September 23, 2008 Some would say yes. Others would say no. I tend to be whatever makes the woman happy. It is not about what makes me happy. It is about what makes her happy, because if she is happy, then she will make me happy in return. You're my role model. I love you!
JamesM Posted September 23, 2008 Posted September 23, 2008 You're my role model. I love you! Careful. I thought you were a guy!
Geishawhelk Posted September 23, 2008 Posted September 23, 2008 I think some terms defy description. What might seem 'kinky' to some, is positively mundane and boringly normal to others..... The only type of sex anyone should never indulge in is one that makes them feel uncomfortable, used, degraded, disrespected and un-heard. If 'you' indulge in any physical activity which demeans, degrades and disrespects a person, then it shouldn't be done. Basically, anything goes, providing both - or all - parties are able, willing and completely relaxed and happy about it.
Krajt Posted September 23, 2008 Posted September 23, 2008 Careful. I thought you were a guy! I've forgotten to take my Meds again!
Jilly Bean Posted September 23, 2008 Posted September 23, 2008 Yes, but kinky is a relative term, as it relates to sex. I mean, some may like to use a feather during sex, and consider it kinky, while others use the whole chicken!
Krajt Posted September 23, 2008 Posted September 23, 2008 I mean, some may like to use a feather during sex, and consider it kinky, while others use the whole chicken! I hope that's not true, as I am a vegan!
grogster Posted September 23, 2008 Posted September 23, 2008 I hope that's not true, as I am a vegan! My ex enjoyed very large cucumbers, which should be acceptable to most vegans. No, I'm not making this stuff up. When it comes to sexual behavior, some folks are more interesting than others.
grogster Posted September 23, 2008 Posted September 23, 2008 What else did she like Grog? We're bored, aren't we Lishy? Well, work remains slow so here we go. In no particular order, J enjoyed: 1. Being Dominated 2. Rough sex 3. Anal sex 4. Spanking 5. Hair pulling 6. Restraints: rope, cuffs, manacles 7. Submitting 8. Providing sex to me anywhere, anytime and anyway 9. Large vibrators 10.Submission fantasies involving group sex with large Black men J is a good woman.We had a great deal of fun. I shall miss her.
Krajt Posted September 23, 2008 Posted September 23, 2008 My ex enjoyed very large cucumbers, which should be acceptable to most vegans. No, I'm not making this stuff up. When it comes to sexual behavior, some folks are more interesting than others. She got that idea from pornography.
Shygirl15 Posted September 23, 2008 Posted September 23, 2008 We're bored, aren't we Lishy? Well, work remains slow so here we go. In no particular order, J enjoyed: 1. Being Dominated 2. Rough sex 3. Anal sex 4. Spanking 5. Hair pulling 6. Restraints: rope, cuffs, manacles 7. Submitting 8. Providing sex to me anywhere, anytime and anyway 9. Large vibrators 10.Submission fantasies involving group sex with large Black men J is a good woman.We had a great deal of fun. I shall miss her. Wow. J is really something else. I can only pick No. 2, 4 and 5 for myself out of the list.
Lishy Posted September 23, 2008 Posted September 23, 2008 We're bored, aren't we Lishy? Well, work remains slow so here we go. In no particular order, J enjoyed: 1. Being Dominated 2. Rough sex 3. Anal sex 4. Spanking 5. Hair pulling 6. Restraints: rope, cuffs, manacles 7. Submitting 8. Providing sex to me anywhere, anytime and anyway 9. Large vibrators 10.Submission fantasies involving group sex with large Black men J is a good woman.We had a great deal of fun. I shall miss her. Hmmmmmmmmm .... Yeah .... I can see why you miss her!
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